What do you do when your partner is obsessed with winning? Picture: iStock. Lifestyle by Isiah McKimmie 10th May 2021 1:59 PM Welcome to Relationship Rehab, news.com.au's weekly column solving all your romantic problems, no holds barred. This week, our resident sexologist Isiah McKimmie tackles a "ballsy" girlfriend obsessed with winning, a wife concerned her marriage has lost its spark and what to do if you're struggling to get an erection. My girlfriend is obsessed with 'winning' and it's driving a wedge between us QUESTION: I've been with my girlfriend for four years but I'm thinking of ending things as she's obsessed with winning. I used to find her ballsy determination cute but now I just find it annoying. I've noticed her "winning" even extends to our arguments.