Dear Black Men, Greetings gentlemen. I hope this letter finds you in good health. I am writing this letter to share with you an experience I recently had that changed my life. I had previously been involved with this woman. For the sake of discretion, let’s call her Bunny. Bunny and I had a toxic relationship. Not toxic in the form of physical and mental abuse, but we argued a lot. Toward the end of our relationship we argued every day. Honestly, I don’t remember what half the arguments were about, but I do remember how adamant I was about being right.