How to keep the financial conversation flowing with your partner Discussing money can be stressful, especially with your spouse. Brenda Pollock, a financial counselor with Evergreen Credit Union has some advice. Author: Brenda Pollock Updated: 5:41 AM EST February 3, 2021 Schedule a money chat date night. What I mean by that, is talking about money is serious but it doesn’t have to be stressful. Set up a time, each week, when you can discuss money matters. Then, follow that up with a taco & movie night at home, or talking a walk; anything you can do together. Getting into the habit of maintaining a regular schedule to discuss money matters in a respectful, calm manner, followed up with a date night, will certainly help keep your relationship healthy.