How to make your child self-accountable? In fact, we are working with these eleven-year-olds and fourteen-year-olds. And because we understand, a lot of us have been groomed to adult age, even without being aware that we need to groom this power of awareness. So we just give them a self-awareness chart. For the very first class they are taught they are just given a self-awareness chart, which is nothing but multiple squares every day. And the assignment is very simple to them. Just stick it on the wall and whenever you think you have been right in a situation, give yourself a tick mark. Whenever you think you have been wrong, just give yourself a cross mark. Let tick marks start from the top of the chart. Let cross marks begin from the bottom of the chart. And the challenge for every day, the child is told, “First of all, by giving the child the freedom to cross himself when he is wrong, I think you’re making a very profound statement to the child.”. We are not expecting human beings to be perfect.