<p>If we love someone with a godly love, then by definition of the word, we decide to compassionately and responsibly pursue the well-being of <em>another</em>. God’s Word tells us in Philippians 2:3 to, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.” Loving another takes <em>self </em>out of the picture, except to <em>give</em> of oneself. </p>