The life of an LGBTQ+ Latter-day Saint is much like the first line of the Everly Brothersâ popular song, âHe Ainât Heavy, Heâs My Brother.â The song states, âThe road is long with many a winding turn that leads to who knows where.â Talk to author Richard Ostler, and he would say the same is true for his journey of listening, learning and loving the LGBTQ+ community. Ostler, a former Young Single Adult bishop for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, said he is deeply committed to the church and to creating more understanding and support for LGBTQ+ members.