Hello. How come your dad told you to lose weight . Did dad offer you something to eat . I say, no, he says thats right, shes already fat, thats what you need for a diet, i hear this all the time, and not only from my dad, it happened from my relatives too. So these words offended you greatly and you decided to lose weight . Yes, when did you start losing weight . Well, about 3 years ago, it all started. How old were you . 13, approximately, somewhere like that. At that time, what was your weight . Well at that time, my maximum weight was 45 kg. How tall were you when you weighed 45 kg . Well, about 58 meters somewhere. And the elite, was alinas weight really already beyond the norm with such height . This was already for 13 closer to the borderline of the norm, that is, the norm is, well, on average, if you count it that way, 110. 158 height, then accordingly the weight should be well 48, the lowest limit, now what is normal weight for alina, now what is her height, now she is 62 meters, somewhere around 5560. Alina, besides dad, did anyone else tell you about that you need to lose weight, brother it turns out , the eldest, so he spoke directly, not only fat, just fat, he said, there was even a situation, well, that is, i was sitting Something Like this, my stomach was sticking out a little, he looked. So wow , your belly is so big, so lets lose weight better. Sergey, how would you behave if your daughter, in your opinion, was overweight, she had a moment when she gained a little weight, yes, i didnt say anything, i carefully suggested and i say, masha, listen, my darling , well, you and i have put on some weight, lets do Something Like that, lets use fruits or vegetables, she says with pleasure, good move, i didnt, says there, listen, youre fat. What are you doing at all , no, under no circumstances, but its so offensive, there are things that a man shouldnt allow himself, thats what its like at home , im afraid there are big problems in the relationship between daughter and parents , indeed, parents and, in general, the closest family the environment can force the fragile psyche of a child or teenager to believe even in something that is not there, a person who treats himself adequately is able to adequately evaluate himself in the mirror, he will understand. That is, something is wrong here, but if from all sides every close person will inspire you that you have a problem that does not exist, you will believe in it, a pathological condition will begin to develop, a disorder called dysmorphophobia, when a person is not able to adequately evaluate himself and believe that he is defective, he has a problem. Alin, what did you do, what measures did you take to lose weight . Started with less, it turns out, put it on yourself, each time, that is, less and less. My portions were getting bigger, so i weighed myself and my weight, that is, became lower, that is, i realized that this method works, that you have to try it like this, and what was your portion, well, about this small plate, and the diet nutrition somehow changed, well, from the very beginning, that is, i had absolutely everything, but just small, small plates like this, portions, we ate everything the same, just less, and then somehow i started switching straight to safe ones like this. Highcalorie foods , to lowfat ones, some fruits, some vegetables, just some cereal from bags, Something Like that, how often did you eat a day, how many meals, well, in general it was different, that is i was sure to be there in the evening, because my parents were at home, that is, they controlled me over this, that i needed to eat, well, at lunch , i could have some broth from the soup, i could have eaten Something Like this, that is , i didnt save the grounds for myself then, but how soon did Health Problems make themselves felt . Well, when i just started to feel, that is, weakness, dizziness , it was constantly darkening right before my eyes, i had no strength at all. That is, just lie straight in general , even the situation was literally not so long ago, in principle, in my opinion it was in october , now i cant say exactly how many kilograms it was, maybe 35 somewhere, i went take the grapefruit, it turns out i have a room, there is a glass door in the room, so i open it, take the grapefruit, turn around, start opening the door handle more and more, i dont remember anything, you fell into a frill and fainted, broke your head. But did your parents really not notice your painful condition . Well, i dont understand, to be honest, how it came to this, but dad sometimes started saying that your face has gotten thinner, well, somehow they didnt pay that much attention, and then somehow he started telling me more often, hes worried they didnt hit, well this wasnt the case from the very beginning, you were in the hospital six times, probably without any success, that is, even after treatment you dont gain weight, no, it did, i came home and still started again. It hit me and got right out of my head, then it didnt come out for a long time, thats it, i again decided that you had lost weight again, yes, but did you have any new ways to lose weight . But it turns out there was a girl, when i first went to the hospital, she was lying there with bulimia, inducing vomiting, at that moment, look, my body was apparently hungry all the time, i began to experience compulsive overeating, i could cram even three packs of cookies into myself at a time, that is, i could not stop. Thats it, it turns out, i wrote to her that help me, but i cant, i already have a heaviness in my stomach, its bad, so she said, try it with two fingers, thats how it usually is, i tried it, i ve been trying to do it for an hour, nothing it worked, then after every meal practically it started to become a habit for me, marina, because this is an extremely dangerous way to lose weight, certainly something that we see already extremely dangerous, because the child does not receive the nutrients he needs. These could be some words, that is, she takes it very to heart, being already in such a situation, naturally, thats all, no matter what she does, but well will ultimately lead, unfortunately, to the fact that she will be dissatisfied with the result, because the problem is this she lives in the paradigm, now ill lose a little more weight, then everything will be fine, then ill be happy, but no matter how much the weight hasnt dropped, she just cant get to this condition, thats where the biggest problem is, huh . Maybe you really just misunderstood their words, maybe your parents said hurray, youve finally gained weight, maybe they were happy in this way, they motivated you to lose weight again. no, most likely, maybe thats why, but i apparently perceived that i had gained weight, exactly. What was your minimum weight . Well, the minimum is 26900. 26, with such a weight of 26 kg, could you do anything at all . Walk, move, well it turns out, thats 17 in january, everything was fine in the morning, but it turns out that by lunchtime i just started to feel that everything was somehow, well , somehow the end was coming, that it had become really bad, that is, i even got up, i was still making noise something in my ears, right before my eyes everything was just black , i didnt see anything, it turns out i was just dizzy, weak, i couldnt even move around the house at all, now you. Dont consider yourself fat . Well, now , to be honest, no, that is, i would like to dial it myself, because it seems to me, well, it happens Something Like that, when i go up to the mirror, and now i can feel fat, now ill think of Something Like, damn, there s fat here, for example, somewhere on my legs im constantly thinking, whats on my arms, i dont know , this is how i get this in general, how these thoughts come to me, if this is not the case at all, im just honestly having a hard time holding back my tears looking at alina, because. I dont understand how it was possible to bring my child to such a state , and how could you not notice that they were simply destroying her psyche, now she, because she shes broadcasting to us now, she herself says i dont understand how this is so, but these. Possible ways to help, they were looking for clinics, that is, in tomsk no one helped, there were no results, so they decided to go to moscow , honestly tell me, you have a grudge against your parents because everything turned out this way, there is, there is, the fact that my life has been crossed out, these 3 years have simply gone nowhere, your parents really regret that they caught it too late and they cant forgive themselves for this, in the studio. Hello, hello, maria, andrey, you do you know that your daughter has a grudge against you . Maybe there is. Alina, tell your mom and dad why you are offended by them . Honestly, almost my life has already been crossed out, one might say, thats what we want, my daughter. Its been a long time since i helped you, but its really night, you just already know that weve been with us for 7 years already, you, i know why youre offended at me, yes, when supposedly i, when you said that youre a big mistake for me , yes, like that, there are cheeks, a tummy, how is it all, right . Beautiful, now, of course, i would like alina to see exactly like this, where to lose weight here, of course, how many years have you been here, well, about 13 , maria, when you began to notice changes in your daughters appearance, well, it was very noticeable, because all the things are baggy, very wide, so it you couldnt see the house , she also walked around in loose clothes with her arms and legs covered, yes, all her clothes were healthy , she had long hair, in the bathhouse i washed her hair, and then one day i looked at her back and. There just bones, well, you could see how they stood out, i burst into tears, went out into the street, and you didnt ask your daughter what was wrong with her, how she was feeling, why she had lost so much weight, well, we talked, but what did she answer that, lets say, she didnt eat bread, why does it make her fat, and you said that youre already extremely thin, alina shakes her head, you didnt tell her that, andrey, when did you realize that something was wrong with your daughter . They are going to the store in the evening, i always seem to see them out of the window when they go to the store, i always saw them off and still see them off, i look at them by chance, literally by accident, the wife is walking, alina is walking, and its like the daughters movements were like yes, her jacket is long, like yes, so she somehow walks like a robot, as if everything was by chance, and after that we immediately they really sounded the alarm, honestly, and what happened, they immediately went to our clinic the next day, and this was before the incident with the bathhouse . No, at first, as if, when i told her what i was saying, somehow alina somehow moved, moved, somehow not right, yes, thats all, then they went to the bathhouse, my wife came, she said, its true , and after that lets go to the doctors already, hopefully, i see that they are outraged by this behavior of the parents, i just cant wrap my head around it, i cant imagine seeing such a child and not noticing that something is happening to her, i dont understand, this is a daughter, this is a girl , you meet her every day, she puts on pajamas every day, leaves in. We were at home for six months in total, the moment you went to the doctors, they delayed it, they delayed it themselves, doctors, honestly , they themselves delayed it, why are you blaming the doctors, the doctors are already a consequence of your behavior. V to the hospital and a psychologist came once a week to work with maria, do you agree with the hope that the problem is not at all with the doctors . A child spends 3 years in the hospital, spends six months at home, and after being discharged from the hospital, the child ends up in a family where she, this fragile, fragile little person, must receive support and attention. And love, you often tell her that you love her, honestly, yes, we say, every day, yes, daughter, i love you so much, well , lately, yes, lately, until this difficult time, you missed these words, well, there werent enough, the fact is that children and teenagers are not taught to be parents, very many who reach the age of 3540 years old, biologically, do not achieve it mentally, the children themselves are conditional. Mentally the children are with us, perhaps there, if you go through the system, there are mothers and parents, if you ask what kind of parents their parents had, most likely they were cold, most likely there was no time, accordingly, they were not taught to be empathetic, they were not taught to be attentive, and blaming parents for something, for the fact that they couldnt do something, is impossible, well, its clear the girls cheeks, that we are all silent , the counters are really visible, well, wait, well, at the age of 13 the girl, thats the whole point, that. You say that they are teasing, you dont stop this teasing, they are probably kind, i explain, that is , there must be a dialogue that we are talking about, but not everyone knows how to build a dialogue with their children, you said that you didnt immediately notice your daughters hudaba, but you couldnt dont notice that she has tiny portions, you didnt force her to eat normally without asking, well, she said thats what she wanted, that is, you just accepted her wishes. 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I assume that the child actually ate only once a day, at dinner, when they were watching, because breakfast in such situations is usually thrown out either through the window or on the way, at school she has. Well, probably 300 calories maximum, at least eight times less than she does not need in order to maintain her body in balance, you know, alin, i still want to clearly show you how much over these 3 years you should have eaten, how much you ate. Colleagues, please bring everything you need. Marin, please explain to us how all this could affect alinas body . Here is one large slide this is what she should have eaten in three years, and what is on the table is in fact about as much as she ate. What is the difference in calories, numbers, and so on. Well, first of all, we realized that the child was generally in a state of hunger, what . You can gain 300 calories, roughly speaking, an apple, a sausage and one egg will be almost 300 kilocalories, yes, that is, here is her diet for the day, instead that she should have had at least. 57 times more, that is, accordingly, this is what we are seeing now, first of all, what will happen to the body, problems with the intestines will begin, because she doesnt eat anything, and as studies have shown, the body begins to eat its own intestines, so problems with stool, which in the future will lead to the fact that even what she eats ceases to be absorbed normally, what happens next, then of course, then what we see is catastrophic fragility bones. Because in general the bone skeleton is formed, in principle, up to 25 years of age, then we spend what we have accumulated in the bones, and use it all our lives, she already has osteoporosis, a disease that, well, for people over 60, must be i am osteoporosis , and this is bone fragility , well, look, that is, yes, if we take a normal bone, it is dense, it is strong, and we cannot break it, well, what does the child have, the child does not have normal bone tissue, because there was not yet. To arrange either protein or