Share Power struggles, like wanting to be the right one, have the ability of destroying marriage. People say that conflict in marriage is normal or unavoidable because marriage consists of two people with different views, priorities, and preferences. Such differences will later on clash, and partners will each campaign for their preferred views and opinions. But they do not see this as being selfish. They see this as something that they believe is best for both of them. Such power struggles like needing to be the right one, hierarchy, and being valid, can and has the ability of destroying marriage.