âThe fact is that in that film, which Iâm really proud of â I love that film, â I had to do all of that just to look like a ânormal personâ. It wasnât like I was playing a superhero or whatever â I was playing a normal guy." Rafe addressed the pressure on men and women in the acting industry, to look a certain way on screen. He said: "There is much in the public discourse about the terrible pressure that women are put under in the entertainment industry to live up to an unrealistic body shape. The same is for me. It isnât just me, itâs all men. And I donât know who itâs for, on both sides, and Iâm sick of it.