Sinead in The City: Why your ex is really getting in touch this Christmas 10 Dec, 2020 10:26 PM 5 minutes to read Ever wondered why every December like clockwork, men you havn't heard from in weeks, months or even years will suddenly reappear? Photo / YouTube. Ever wondered why every December like clockwork, men you havn't heard from in weeks, months or even years will suddenly reappear? Photo / YouTube. "Hey, Merry Christmas! You look like you're doing really well. Are you around over the holidays?" "Hey, Happy New Year! – fancy catching up in 2020? My mum says she misses you, btw." "Let me say, without hope or agenda, just because it's Christmas and at Christmas you tell the truth, to me, you are perfect."