South African sperm donor fights for access to his child 12 April 2021 1:20 PM Share This: The man donated sperm to a same sex-couple who allowed him access to the child for 4 years who have now changed their mind. In what is a South African legal first, says Lester Kiewit, a sperm donor will approach the Gauteng High Court this week for him to have access to the child, conceived with his sperm. He donated sperm to a same sex-couple who have now decided, they don't want the sperm donor in their life, despite him having been allowed access to the child for the last four years.