âI told u to block him!â âu canât wear tht!â âWhy didnât you text me back?â âYou canât wear that with other lads around wtfâ âif you wear that to town weâre finishedâ Social media messages among teenagers can reflect toxic relationships. A group of socially conscious Mercy Secondary School transition year (TY) students in Mounthawk, Tralee, Co Kerry, calling themselves Red Flags, set out to #BreaktheSilence around toxic relationships, under the slogan âDetect to Protectâ. They won the top prize this month in Young Social Innovators of the Year awards, which celebrate young people, and their educators, who contribute to their communities creatively.