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Scene W N 95.6 radio for the last minute want to help with the new season of immolation Prince William and Theresa May yet preparing to join the families of the 20 victims of the Manchester Arena for a service marking a year since the attack a minute's silence to be held across the country will be observed during the memorial at Manchester Cathedral flowers have been laid in the city center from where correspondent Danny Savidge reports on a pedestrian eyes stres in the center of Manchester a long line of small trees and big pots stretches into the distance each one of them is adorned with dozens of personal messages on pieces of card fluttering in the gentle breeze on this sunny day these are people's reflections on the awful events here a year ago one reads We were at the arena that horrendous night we helped 2 more people get out and we have remained friends. Haiti was person was another man cutie and leaving a message to match the party that commits the day just to see the governor's mansion still has a year on it's still quite strong it's not going to be broken just beyond this afternoon Prince William and the prime minister will attend a special remembrance service at Manchester Cathedral and later there will be a concert in one of the city squares a burning a woman has been jailed for 9 years for stealing from the elderly in vulnerable Darryl Flynn from Cape scream road Conteh way into the names by using a fake ID and pretending to be a Cleese Officer West Midlands Police have labeled her a callous criminal he steals to fund her drug habits Marks and Spencers announce the proposed closure of its store in Walsall the retail is consulting with the 94 stuff there it's revealed that it will close 100 stores by 2022 accelerating a reorganization that it says is vital for the firm's future the government's been blamed for job losses in the West Midlands also native industry joining a special Commons debates Labor M.P.'s office in the problem down to uncertainty or the Bracks says and the demonizing of diesel cars leading to forming sails the Labor M.P. For Birmingham Erdington Jack Jamie says the environment secretary Michael Gove is partly responsible a 1000 workers have been laid off at the Sunday Jonathan 40 workers have been transferred from the Jack you were plowed over to sorting out why because of the combination the combination of the utter confusion over diesel on the one give me by saying that I think the right on the members is grossly and all this situation sending the wrong message having an impact upon consumer confidence and the conservatives are set to take control of Walsall Council after controversial votes which sees their choice from their stay in the job for a 2nd year is the 1st time anyone has held the raised role for consecutive years is a. 1940 S. And was only possible when councillor Mulcair long used a casting vote to vote for himself Council along he has said his hand had been forced when an independent today expected to take the mass role this year had given a critical interview on B.B.C. Last week but no the member of the authority said Mr Long he had gone from a hero does it right it really is something that I regret because that very councillor actually said I had no choice but the people are also above anything else to try and put it's hard to charge with it which is you know the only way. To me seems the only way I'm going to point point 6 was Press former chief exec Mark Jenkins has told B.B.C. To be run the club lost its principles and needs to get back to basics after relegation from the Premier League Jenkins says backs need had a multi-pronged back what the club stands full more as Al guest on a special football finance nice from 6 o'clock wells will have announced the signing of the sun a striker Andy Cook will arrive from transmit on a free transfer the 27 year old has signed a 2 year deal and to scoring 51 goals in the last 2 seasons in the National League and elsewhere in football Harry Kane has been named England captain for the World Cup whilst 4 months City boss Manuel Pellegrini is the name manager of West Ham and in speedway will the handsome boss Peter Adams felt the track conditions may have unsettled one osu of his rightist as they lost away again at Leicester last night's wolves did they claim a losing point that keeps them 2nd in the Premiership only to the weather mainly dry and sunny today highs of 21 Celsius 74 in height and staying dry tonight 8 Celsius 46 Fahrenheit that's your knees and sport for the West Midlands It's 4 minutes past. The hour with Caroline Martin. If you want to join that dimension pool I'm going to play you something in a minute that will give you all the details as to how you can do that we've had fun to be of interest actually so thank you poor It sends a thank you very much. To random for coming in the soft they know how to study fantastic. 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And I'll have a check in a bit and find out what they're going to be doing on the show the softer noon I think they are actually going to be broadcasting live from the Grand Theater in Wolverhampton So we'll find out what's going on then next. Spring. 11. 11. 1111. I'm livin thing. 5.6 right so if you would like to join the squad the B.B.C. W.-M. Dimentia choir on our plate this was but just to recap I'm going to play again because it will give you all the detail you make a difference make a difference a key difference this year B B C W M D's making a difference between the. B.B.C. W.-M. Domenici choir and we want you to join our 100 strong chorus more and more people are being diagnosed so if you've got a friend or relative who's been affected by dementia then you're just who we want to see spirits is required a something one to at that Paris and Paris will have 6 weeks of rehearsals in. The house and plenty must be available for the performance on Monday the night of July to find out more call one double 0 double 956 make a difference at the B.B.C. Don't go don't you can't sign up sing up and help us make a difference make a difference make a difference making a difference in the West Midlands B.B.C. W A N 95.6 such out with Linda whose inhabitants and hi Linda Trello Hi there nice to chat see this often and Linda. Your mom has dementia so how is she living with you all the details that every one happened with the last Szish and had a for them we didn't know a long got there and she was lying on the floor in a truck and she'd broken as it is she had contact think straight men that good hope it will right you to hit reply and then sure if they don't tell him her at the stake I think it was right wait that's the thing I've ever. Seen and everything again and then when they say that to diagnose her yet but she's following my old and in one. But then I'm she couldn't go home because she's very very desperate as well and there she is going to attach a chance to carry her home which is being used to call it the Leslie decorated candy pink dining rooms broncho orange dining rooms liberally tranquil stitching rooms that my mom's room is actually off Hollywood Walk by color and it's got all pictures Audrey. Bow and left that are absolutely wonderful that really get to know each individual but what she didn't stand and they well she does that in her when she got paper in these times that we just walking up and down and I look very troubled in this that put their arms around them and down with them but I don't think that we're putting enough into actual activities for these people. No I think that that is very true and I think that this is when it comes right down to time and time again there is not enough funding there is not enough resource for the people over those helping them is the reason the certainly isn't and there was a gentleman about 4 weeks ago who's there and he's very quiet and one time when I was just. A big chair as that. Guy was trying to move them back. So I said to them what was this job with a removal removal. And I said yes so you say he just want some day we just know he's going but you know this isn't a you gave it back to me clearly not. And how is she coping how we how we see him every She she she happy that I'm think she is yet because because I just not she wasn't a great make that she depended on name a brother my sister is a kid and I read a lot but the good thing I think it's come out quite well my Because she's actually make staying on the back I think she may see a sale. Or thoughts on the way but that's the way yes then she says or do get. The ones that will come out of some alignment dies or knowledge that mom one died next way and but she does thing she said that didn't have a shared because that great I mean she's I you know and she was I ding a ling on the 20 both of April but she's very That being the situation and these were 2 you know and I think that she would pursue it and how you were that. It was all a big shock obviously it's all been a big shock but it's quite good because I go and they have a high degree of the. You know taken on a on how she is and how happy she is and like she said in a while I was depressed it was a bit lonely and she doesn't think I'm paying to say hi or weight but I said Mama was the a Friday and you were going I was a die. Yes So I think she comments how it's going to read it is hard isn't it my mom says that when she goes to you know because she went to see Charles my stepdad the other day and she said it's heartbreaking because you know she'll go in she goes in most days and she will you know sit with him have a chat with him and then the other day he's like well where are you going and she's like well I'm going to go now and I'll be back again tomorrow and he's like would get hold of me let me get my coat and I'll come with you where were we going and he's trying to get into the lift and she said Would you like to come home for a bit you know just you know him go home for the afternoon and he's got no idea where home is he no he has no recollection of it whatsoever so and she's wondering is it going to do more harm than good to actually take him out and take him home I think that's the dilemma that she's got is that going to set him back well you know any different what is the things to do it is having the all says to these questions practical help like that as well isn't it yes because I suspect at one point my mom debate mom was thinking she was saying that they went through that you know what and they said what you need to gradually what backwards or forwards rather to the current day if they have got the photograph and no reason really how or where the memory. That is all over so I can saying well listen I'm glad that she's somewhere good and that you found somewhere good for her because she has such a dark stories it's good that there are places where they can be looked after and the staff a fantastic can can keep them Harry but I thank you for coming on doing was amazing wasn't she as well to hang fantastically So how will they start the program is great especially if you're Amy exactly what I mean by that I mean if you're very sick and they really how to listen to how another day another person they were with it and how kind of like coping mechanisms kick in and what gets them through as well so care no more for America work at them or. So I'm going to look at trying to get me a job doing activities coordinator in some when like there I think is a fabulous idea and it's like right I was saying as well the music side of it you think music is pretty much it's not one size fits all there's going to be people that you know get to hear Elvis Presley and they're all moved by the idea you know something completely different is what appeals to them so I know one of these things they're going to and I rightly said they will be very the Wolverine and I just think it's something that I think we could look at the best of when we are that's the only thing. I think that you are absolutely right said and a change needs to happen Linda I thank you very much lovely and let's talk to Avril who's Ingo in Ohio Avril Hello Caroline nice to chat to you Avril So this is another. This is another good experience of a care home and that's good we're getting positive ones so tell us your story what happens where you are what is not you find that she's she was where they have to have a poke we took a. Child to start we've been preparing to help Mum with this anyway because she was blowing but she was not coming to the dances because we're going to school coming down 16 with the music we can literally everywhere then she we lost that comes from Fortunately I teen years ago we didn't think she would survive 12 died and she lived on an island and got stronger and stronger but I might as well my fishing lines as well so she was fiercely independent but we had our house to be ready for when it was time when Mum is going to come and live with us I will of the bedroom put on the downstairs which are ready and then out of the blue she had a stroke. So that was that was a decision time and she kind to them with us and we looked after a full 60 is aside but to get the dimension that eventually kicked in big time after the stroke and it gets hard and hot all potential the spite and I'm going to have to put you back in but gradually did that 1st for the 1st few years but each It becomes more and more difficult as the disease kicks in and I began to the washed out what I thought was wonderful people. That were helping my part of the town and device as well. But he got to the point where she would she was she he had she was she was in touch in hospital. I took into account that was shocking to side the latest so much so that she lost a stone like she was the hydrated she'd been up to about that had put to bed because I said she didn't want to go on I was absolutely horrified she went to hospital and I put on 20 life I was she'd been done for a poetry which was shocking. 2 weeks. Cutting cutting a lot of the story out she she. Managed to persuade them to to tide right in the hospital and she went into the care have the chance you know and I treated them like a queen I said she got 2 guys to live 6 months like this you can have all we covered Chrisy was all that well what if what I was thinking of the lady before me was signed. I don't know I mean she would come to my house and she'd say I I want to go hum. It's about money or no I want to go home and then I said to. Whitney she said on the Thames to the road which was a high she was born and she didn't want to come back to me at all she wanted to go back to her right on the dot and I struggle is for quite a long time conventional I. Bet he's clinically because a very cunning Billy said you're going to this is going to be a lot it's never ever you said I think you're being cool or confusing or could she do wish you should have done when she's at your house she was I was she's a tough as she is and I was sick you think we would be kind to Mom to put into the care how wished it was settled where she'd stay in one place and it was the hardest decision I've ever lived in my life but I had to go to college content and so of course tried to K. . You know. And on my dignity that was a care home place kind of like the place she's at night which is. Has taken on cannot speak highly but the they are wonderful and I didn't she isn't a critic sent across she cried we all cried which is crying on a credit note but what we all know I want people to want it's difficult but a guy every other dialogue like assigning a driver that. She really likes to make fantastic like what they do I don't care how much of a regular thing that is the least something about every 2 weeks I try to look like thing with them that I. Olsen's activities and I constantly want to watch it so what the how could this really will it still breaks my heart when she she clings to me to. Don't leave the PLEASE LET ME BE THE ONLY on the shields and she agreed piece I mean it's very very hard to do about. The alternative is worse because the issue with me is how here which is lovely and on and on and it's hard work but she's there's always my voice not by the whole. But the. Voice so when she is she's content she's happy she's become more familiar with it and and Yes yes a lot I have never seen anything like a lot of she never. Thought of me because of the dark about that she is a child. What it's like and of the times I would. Want to let you want to know the scope of that call I go to that now don't go oh right. Right straight to the point Matt thanks mom. She literally she is 3 years if I don't comply Yes. And yes probably like that I'll be so like Christmas like it is done to I've got everything and I actually joining with a lot of the things I do at the king house because she's happy and at the other but you're happy to be that wasn't happy so it's not I think that you know if she's happy and you can be happy and you know stress and you know a breaking point all the time then that's going to make you feel better when you do go in and say there isn't it really and I'm also on the. Point just like to make you then become a doctor and not this yeah I'm not so sure what I'm going to quickly I'll tell you beforehand where she went to. A way to a lot of to 2 guys I'm sure will be helping somebody in shape and I put up a picture of a coat on the thoughts of a tiger I don't want to stop my I didn't send it to him I'm in the public eye but then I'm on the what about it. To the cat is kind of it's not level and I told him I want to back it will you know will help people unless I can have a coat over how it was 4 o'clock right after that so that's my time in the most of this and I'm going to go back I'm going to go back I'm going to go but. What we've got. To have not and if you're in THE SITUATION. It's quite time really to a seat on that yes. It sort of settle the in the right time which I used because that would be what to do so that having been there going to turn did you go back and find it useful now you know I went Oh this was a good sign I went back to the to write the doorbell and comes when the cameras have been there 20 years which is a mark of how good you have. Something right so yes I'll go see my church just like you can you can come any time of day that you know that. Even when I was close to the. Ground or touch did not count I mean actually. What she said. So she'd come down and she'd come to. Like she said oh look at me want to do it and I looked . Up with the bad guy. She wrote you. Couldn't ask for better but that's it you've got a good place she's in a good place that Avril listen we're going to have to let you go a bit funky those Avril in go on all and thank you everybody else that called up and made comment as well I'm sorry that we ran out of time to put you all on but thank you a