Father said hello. Good afternoon, who better to contact you for an interview at the start of the school year. Please tell us how it is for you, not only as a father of many children. But also the clergyman begins this hot apparatus very well and organically. E, because in our family the number of students in secondary schools has decreased. We have two schoolchildren, everything is as usual, like everyone else. We collect the required number of notebooks of stationery and will, of course, follow the dress code that is prescribed. Well, in general we perceive the beginning of a new school year, as an organizing beginning in the life of our family, because it s still summer, but it relaxes everyone so much. And of course, we are returning to this tone. This is already such an educational one. In principle , how is the School System going for you . How do you combine . And homework, roughly speaking, and service, because i, of course, am immersed in the service of parish concerns, and in this regard. Of course, you can say that all the burden on my mother is on my wife. Well, were meeting with the kids on saturday. Here they are sleeping off. We come out to meet each other, we begin communicate and ask how the school year went overall, since it is not the first in our lives. Yes, and our children. They are very different and their school time. Eh, it happened in different ways, including for us as parents. We had some people worrying from our chats. Thats why i think that if not everything is there, there is a lot, and we have already experienced it, so we are ready to simply perceive this process in such a systematic, organic working way towards any challenge over the years. Yes . Well, i hope, yes i hope, yes, but you yourself didnt study at school i will say that he is very diligent. Especially in high school, but i liked, of course, humanities subjects. This is the russian language of literature, i really want to remember yan, taking advantage of this opportunity as an excellent teacher of my mentors this is a very important element. In the life of any young person. Not just a subject student, but someone who is a mentor , who can be called mentors and such in my life in the life of my friends, uh, childhood there were a lot of classmates, starting with the director of ilyich evgeniy fomich. Here is marina nikolaevna, a trumpet player. Lyubov alexandrovna maletskaya Tamara Mikhailovna is my class teacher, uh, khimik, who we didnt have a very difficult relationship with and is now 87 years old and the champion of the bssr in athletics. She was always like this, uh, very charged, positive in tone and always recommended us to lead a healthy lifestyle, many teachers, who today, of course, are their work and uh, what they tried to convey to you is not only knowledge. Yes, but you begin to perceive some general understanding of life. Just now. Now, when you yourself are in adulthood, and then this, actually, their pedagogical role is the role of people who definitely needed me, huh . So lets say to oppose. Eh, yes, i was called upon to behave somewhat controversially, to put it mildly, more than once. Im going to talk to the director in the office. Well, now this is information from the category. Keep your kids away from the screen. No , its not that, well, of course, i could tell you. Eh, very prosperous, good, successful. Eh, a young man who then somehow productively studied in theological schools. No, there was a collapse of the country, it was a collapse of the worldview. Yes, many people have many generations, respectively, my youth this is how the youth of many guys, uh, in the early nineties, with the collapse of the soviet union , it was such complete disorientation , a little, what are you thinking about . Yes , at the same time you experience a certain uncertainty of constraint in your capabilities in the modesty of your material resources. Thats it. In general. Which many . Yes, who lives this life . This is how the restoration of personality goes; fortunately, we managed to somehow get out of some, well, maybe dangerous paths. The one that could lead to the very disastrous result. So i thank god for this. And now how do you feel about such school traditions, oh, uh, how in the spirit of putting a textbook under your pillow so that you can remember a poem better, or is there a certain foot in school . Well , thats what we call superstition. And yes, well, this is such a freebie for students. Come all these things. Here there is one very important flaw in our state of mind of our human nature, which is in the situation of an oak tree of inclinations towards sin, which always attracts us something secret we want to control absolutely everything. Uh, its hard for a person to act and live in a situation of uncertainty, instead of putting a poem under the pillow , trying to love poetry in order to simply memorize the poem and report this one moment like this. But what if the teacher teaches students to appreciate poetry . Yes, this is a very big deal, because the volume of the text is huge, and in a lifetime it is impossible to Read Everything that you would like and everything that is interesting, and poetry, since it is a concentrate meanings, yes, in a very Small Literary form. She is precisely what develops such a taste for reading. And therefore through the perception of poetry. Yes, it is possible to truly evaluate the quality or literature of prose, although now it is difficult to do this, since we already live in the era of hypertext. Yes, uh, but here there are advantages and disadvantages, since reading an ordinary printed book, the smell of the pages, tactile touch, plus imagination, yes, which allows the reader, who is reading the text, to build uh the laws of the world of ones perception and ones imagination. There is great freedom in this and the greatest work. One intellectual way is to emphasize interest in the book and what has been read through e, active reading by parents and discussion between them when the family gathers at the table for dinner, yes, well, there should be some topics for conversation and it is much better to tell each other what something interesting. Yes, read and seen, rather than endlessly delve into who offends whom, or in mutual reproaches or in bad grades in diaries. Well i think its a book and some hmm circle of reading people, this will be uh, a very elite community in the near future. By the way, we mentioned grades. How do you feel about your childrens grades . And this is important or, in fact, grades are not the point of learning. This is an important meaning, of course, not its evaluation when . Well, first of all, uh, the score. It is given in a very short moment in a persons life, especially a child who, well, has no life experience, and she cannot. Well, to be a sign of quality that would somehow characterize today. Moment this is a kind of incentive that the Education System offers so that our children somehow want to achieve something, it is very important to have. Eh, some kind of balanced attitude towards this phenomenon. Yes because hmm our Education System. She still broadcasts that we are educating a multifaceted, developed personality, then we are educating a worthy citizen in our field of education. Yes , the idea of a certain moral character of a person sounds. Thats why, and this is reality and the formation of such a personality. Shes coming out far beyond the borders. Eh, or headquarters or rim, but, for example, of course, its worth thinking about when you graduate from, say, high school, and you aspire to enroll in some educational institutions. There in college. Yes, then suddenly it turns out that your past is expressed in the average section of your certificate. It may give you an unpleasant surprise that they suddenly need you to be left out of that business, which is where your heart has been in recent years. The church began to interact more. Even with secular educational institutions a specialized Synodal Department has appeared, and in your opinion. This is a true trend. And what does this give from vladyka, our primate of the belarusian orthodox church. Well, while he was a vicar bishop, he also headed for quite a number of years the Synodal Department for the formation of cotilization and this formation itself. This Specialized Department resulted in some definite results. Yes, in this systematic systematic work, it was natural that this was carried out. Uh, in such close contact with the ministry of education, thats why this department appeared it works and there are results, which, for example, are expressed in the publication of textbooks. Uh, according to the basic spiritual culture of patriotism. And actually. This is a completely healthy practice. You are the chairman of the Distant Department of the belarusian exarchate on family issues with the protection of motherhood and childhood. Does your work begin with the school year . Or is it such an unseasonal volume that we are always ready to work, because we are obedient. Yes our employees of our department. We are obedient and uh, in this regard, of course, ahead in the near future in the future, in our civil calendar , mothers day is the intercession of the blessed virgin mary. And now this is the week of parental love, which ends on october 19 with fathers day, and therefore, of course, i can safely predict that we , and me and our employees. Eh, they can invite students to this or that audience in order to hold a meeting with such a focus on this topic of fatherhood and motherhood. Yes, marriage families should be sharpened, therefore, we always respond to any proposals when they especially invite it always a very Good Opportunity. Meetings with those people and students. But whoever is not a Church Member may not quite understand the logic of thinking of church representatives. This is a Good Opportunity to meet and talk as a rule in a comfortable environment for them. I know that, despite some , say, negative media assessments. Well, isnt lyric poetry taking up too much of the life of Secular Society . Yes, i see that at the level of personal meetings and direct work with the audience. E. This experience is always positive, because if the speaker the speaker speaking here who was invited by the guest, he managed to interest. He can always share his experience and vision with the blessing of the patriarchal exarch and bear such constant obedience to the preparation of documents related to the subsequent resolution of the patriarchal exarch on the recognition of Church Marriage as having lost its canonical force. Yes, its so sad. Our life and our activities are connected with the fact that well , uh, our fellow citizens are fellow believers, they were unable to realize their marriage in a good way and uh, well, they once got married, yes, well, they want somehow complete it. Yes, finally this process, as a rule, well, everyone gets married, then they dont think that since when the mysterious nothing has legal force, then, accordingly, there are no quick consequences. Yes, but gradually a person, suppose he matures internally and when he tries to arrange his life in another marriage. Yes, he considers it necessary for himself to complete parting with the past there, well, there are different situations, we are also preparing such documentation on the decorations of those who turn to the patriarch to the arch, and with a request for Church Commemoration of their relatives who committed suicide. This is such a very difficult process. Eh, communication yes, very, of course, painful for many people. Well, this is part of our ministry, so it also takes up a very large part of our lives, and personal time. Yes, thats what we do. So this place is not completed by nature. My small homeland begins near this place. Why does this work because my dad is already a wife and this is the place for me. I just cant live with wonderful people, that is these were kind, honest people who protected their native land. Its good after work. This is how you can relax, feed the fish and admire nature and the clouds. And our fountain is gurgling full of idyll, look, the poleshuki project on the belarus 20 shatyry tv channel. The world is collapsing; there is no longer the former globalization, that is, we are going through regionalization trends. We are an island of peace, around which there is a warring state accusing us, but sorry, we did not send mercenaries there and did not supply weapons. They have nothing to fear. We do not attack anyone in the same the constitution of the republic of belarus pledged not to wage an aggressive war with its territory. We know what we are against and what we need to be for this, but this is what we need to be and become in order to win the economic confrontation. Well have to recreate. All those sectors of the economy that are of key importance for the normal functioning of our society and our state markov project nothing personal just the truth, which is always more interesting at home. Watch on belarus 24 tv channel. In our program the most active schoolchildren from all over belarus i know that the middle ages are divided into three periods. Its early middle and later, so i said yes to win our game. They are not catching freebies, but new information. I had a drive when i studied at music school for 3 years. Uh, and if my memory serves me right, the horn is a wind musical instrument, the musical time signature of a waltz shoots three quarters, because thats how there are three beats one, two, three tickets, the super final will be given to the one who can answer the maximum number questions the question is quite complicated, but something told me to answer exactly no alexey what is the formula of air, how is it a formula . No. Its just a mixture of different gases. Its nice to talk to them. Look in the project. I know on the tv channel belarus 24. So lets maybe go into even more detail. What are the direct directions of the Synodal Department on family issues through motherhood and childhood. How many people should we wait . Who are these people . We are ready to communicate with all those responsible. Secretary of our department. This is the priest of the matses cleric of our Parish Church of st. Nicholas of japan. Here is father alec. Very well, most of it. Eh, such daily work is carried out by invited specialists from the field, e and social sphere, crisis psychologists. These are the people who worked with social orphanhood. For us, of course, a great resource is the volunteers at the maternity Family Support center, motul. Yes , because we always work with cases. Yes, that is, there is a specific request. And well , its easier, well, we also have diocesan Specialized Departments and once a we spend the year on the basis of the minsk Theological Seminary in zhirichi, as a rule, this is timed to coincide with the fifteenth of may for International Family day , we hold a forum at which we define the topic in the past. It was the theme of fatherhood. And uh, we will try to conduct such practiceoriented forums that could be, with the help of existence, yes, diocesan employees of the regions, in their daily activities. Well, this is our kind of today. Well, lets say resources are possible. We see that in the future the parish of the church of st. Nicholas japanese it is conceived as a temple complex and, uh, one of the locations of our temple is a shelter for women in crisis situations, but now time is passing. Yes, we get some experience, accumulate it , and try to verify it somehow. Uh, were considering so that we can, uh, really, kind of transform this space that we called there, well , a shelter, or social hotels, whatever. We are considering this for the future, like the creation of an Innovative Center for social practices, that is, what is available in i mean that today, uh, there is a problem associated with hmm, a large number of family breakdowns, as a rule, the first brothers break up after 35 years of marriage. It happens that the reason for the collapse of seven is the birth of a child, how do we interpret this when working . Yes, with specific cases, that uh, young people do not fully understand what it is for the sake of which they get married, that is, for us now the Living Conditions of our society, especially in the capital, they are such that uh . So lets say get together in some kind of community, uh, for the sake of there is no need to strengthen and increase the survival rate. And therefore, uh, if in such a Traditional Society a family, a multigenerational family with many children, is the key to economic uh, sustainability. Yes, and enriching the resource household, then today there is no need for this ; today, the values of selfrealization are important. Eh, in this regard, of course, young people cannot always answer the question for themselves. Why do they get married with goals . And then, when, uh, suddenly they get closer and start living in the same place space. It is she who will not see that this is not what i dreamed of and this is not at all what i wanted. Yes, some mutual responsibilities arise. Eh, someone is used to freedom. So any need to take into account the opinion of another. Perceived as, uh, a danger signal. Why does this limit me . That is, it would seem that for our parents it is impossible to even imagine that hmm , such desires should be taken seriously, but they nevertheless play a very large role in the consciousness of young people today, and so for us it is very important that such a center appears in the space of the uh orthodox parish in such a socially, uh, bustling microdistrict of the city of minsk Kamennaya Gorka. Eh, which would help shape these behavior patterns. Yes, in order to neutralize these negative manifestations. Yes, because sometimes, uh, what is, well , its also elementary, yes, learn to talk to each other , talk to each other about your needs. Yes , this can solve a lot of problems. Yes , many moments, because, uh, no one is forcing us at gunpoint, yes, into marriage. We do this voluntarily to create a family; moreover, people find something very important in each other in order to be together, we talk about faith, and in god as a resource, believing families. They are stronger. This undoubtedly speaks to this and statistics must be answered for the sake of it. Why are we together