Exercise you know it's that we kind of sort of submit ourselves to the fact that that's a that's a different field where we're working in a different kind of thing but why do you think these advertisers are kind of moving with the times well it's a really interesting question because the changes that we see have been taking place over a long period of time the changes I mean are you know changes in attitude changes in legislation which have are leading to a different types of families say you know more people being divorced therefore more stepfamilies you know people living with their half siblings increased learn parenting gay parenting that these changes have been attitudes towards those things and these changes have been taking place but in some way it would seem that the representation of family haven't sort of core top and I think that's because there is something nevertheless very comforting about the sort of nostalgic ideal of the family unit of the you know mom and dad and 2.2 children there's something that is appealing about that albeit it doesn't necessarily reflect the reality of many of our lives Ok so we're going to be back to Polly Russell and having a look at the nostalgic version of the family mom dad 2.2 kids why so many people feel that the advertisers are not representing what the modern family looks like we'll do that for you next after this. With. This. New. This. Is the. Power shower. When Steve. Small. Feet. Force. Winds keep. Moving he. Just. Moves. A. Few out. Big Finish Harry Hill stylee the Kings of Leon. His radio be f.b.s. The new one for Jay z. On the way for you next festival that we're having a look at the the British family and how it's depicted through advertising say the nostalgic version of the family member dad the kids so why some. Many people feel the advertisers are not representing what the modern family looks like we're back to Dr Polly Russell to find out more do you think it sets the bar bitsy high like trying to reach for that perfect goal this is a family life and this is how it is and what and when you achieve this this is when it gets good yeah that's a really interesting question the survey suggested that 43 percent of families think that the portrayal of family life is unobtainable I think what's really interesting is that if you off this question in the 1950 s. All the 1960 s. a Lot of people would not have had it most people would have had a kind of conventional family set up and meant mostly they do now but in the ninety's fifty's and sixty's if you were divorced or if you were a lone parent you would have had a high degree of kind of stigma and shame associated with it whereas now that's not the case I mean took to a great extent you know people don't fit embarrassed about those things that just a sort of reality that many of us live with and so I think what's changed is the attitude as much as the experience and yeah show indeed and I think that's a really good point because the nice thing is now yes it's really lovely to have that perfect family set up and isn't that wonderful and assess you then you know great that's brilliant but the thing is that people try and make the family arrangement work and people were really hard at building relationships with ex partners with new children that are involved with them and I think that's really cool something very special Yeah I think that's right Also you perhaps kind of recognition that family life is many things to many Poles but one of the things that it is is that you know sometimes it's really happy and it's you know really funny and we all have a laugh an eccentric but also family life is quite rough and tumble chávez arguments disagreements and so you know that's also part of family life you know the survey see that 24 percent of people said they look forward to a male time more than they do actually enjoy it which I think the interest. Thank you because what it means most people do actually enjoy it actually you know eating with your family which we day we think is important we like doing it but also it can be way you have heated disagreements debates battles shouting at the kids that's also family life and that's all right yeah absolutely sounds like Christmas from mine it's a real pleasure to teach today to thank you so much for your time thank you ladies and gentlemen is the eat cake see who is still walk. Every 2. To. Every to. Do you own room. played place. A. Serious. Player. Playing. Here. This is b.s. B.s. You tough enough to hold your kids in a dramatic insurance rise they'll test your driving skills to the limit then sign up now for the cars in June. Each for strong team throw a twin engine. 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