the kiss from one cheek to the other, a cold kiss, there isn't a lot of warmth. despite their surface differences, young diana and young charles are actually pretty united. the desire to feel safe, the desire to control your environment, the desire to be in a solid structure all of that goes back to imperfect parents, unmaternal mothers, distant fathers and the feeling of being an unwanted child. ♪ ♪ >> in 1975 diana's grandfather dies and her father becomes the earl. they had to move to north hampton, the family seat.