>> the merge was over but he still felt a huge obligation towards her, mainly in the shape of her sons who were sleeping just a few yards away. >> the queen and prince charles got up and talked together. discussed whether they should tell the boys. and i think what rightly charles decided that what was the point of waking up the boys right now? we don't know -- we don't know the truth of it. we'll wait till the morning. he chose, i believe, to talk to william, first. his eldest. which is understandable. and together, they then went and told prince harry who was, um, just 12. >> i think charles's decisions that night came from the heart, actually. he felt absolutely that his ex-wife was still the mother of the future king. um, sqand was still the woman h had once loved and was still royal in some measure and should be treated accordingly.