Ive been to combat five times. See what ive seen. The death, the funerals, been around a bunch of explosions. I have light sensitivity, and ptsd. Ive been through so much trauma. Here on the front lines, speaking out about his troubled journey back from war, casey wilson. Served in afghanistan, kosovo and iraq. Tony robbins helped him overcompost Traumatic Stress disorder, something a lot of soldiers suffer from. Its powerful and moving address you gave there. You can see the physical effects. You were shaking and youve clearly been through all sorts of trauma, in different ways. Before you met tony, what was your life like . I was doing a lot of current therapy, you know, psychiatry, psychology, which i started in 2011. 2010, i started doing trying to figure out my life, because i went through a second divorce. And so i didnt understand the whole process, why was i feeling this way . So i started to seek treatment at that time. I was going to acupuncture, healing touch, meditation. Did it help, any of that . Yes. It was helping to an extent, you know. Like i said, i was just 20plus years in the marine corps. I had severe trauma at a child which i never realized was a problem until, you know, i just added more stuff after more stuff in my life. Why dont you tell them what your symptoms were at the time. Basically insomnia. I would probably sleep four or five hours a night, but i would wake up 45 minutes to every hour. I would have severe tremors. I was before i knew of my light sensitivity, i always had headaches and migraines. I would have to go into dark rooms, take a nap. And, you know, i would just be breaking down myself in a sense. What was the rock bottom moment for you . The rock bottom moment for me, in a sense, was it was after my second divorce. Just being i pushed so many people away. I couldnt figure out why i felt this way. I deployed eight times. You know, i went to combat four times, but i count my life as my fifth combat. You know, deployment. Ive been fighting myself prior to in my younger age, until my age i am, 39 years old, when i went to date with destiny december 1st where, you know, i needed to get a little bit of motivation, because here i am about to retire from the marine corps. Tony, there are tens of thousands of American Service men and women who go through similar trauma. Its been a terrible period for the american military. Constantly in combat in various countries. What do you say in that situation . It isnt just saying. Weve done this with hundreds of Wounded Warriors and different soldiers. Inside every human being, we have trauma. His was extreme trauma. Theres a personality in him that was beyond wounded. But inside of everyone, theres a part of you thats whole and strong. Thats truly untouched by the experience. So what i had to do is find out he was trying to express his pain, and i felt that. Then i got him to connect to a part of himself that is whole. This part you can see on camera, we gave it a name. The name was tigger. When he changed to that kind of personality, his glasses came off, he was able to see without the headaches. He stopped tremoring. He had been shaking like this for hours. All that stopped literally in minutes. An hour later he was on stage with a group of, about 2,500 people from 80 countries rocking them, sharing his mission for his life. He found something greater than his pain. He found something he wanted to serve, like he served for his country. Now its to serve other people. Is that a regular people for people coming out of combat zones, i have military people in my family, and when theyre home, they get listless and restless, and start to feel strange, just not being where theyre used to being, in that dangerous environment. We dont know how to open up, or express our tell our story either. Thats also part of the problem. And the other part, too, as well, is being accepted in society. You know, because theres a brotherhood in the services around the world. And we have a problem when we come out of the service, you know, to the civilian world where people will judge us and use if they find out about our trauma, in one way or another, will use that against us. There is no brotherhood that i would say in a civilian community. When you see people who have gone through, what my previous guest went through, a school shooting, a young man and all the trauma thats happened to him. What do you think of that . What advice would you give him . Basically he has to take back his life. Finding forgiveness, you know, its more finding forgiveness for himself so he can find peace in his life. He has so much potential that hes able to basically be able to impact and change so many peoples lives. Tony, is that a regular thing, too, if you feel too angry and bitter about whats happened to you, thats a huge barrier to being able to get through it . Its not just a barrier to get through it, science shows five minutes of rage, you certainly have the right to have, and what hes been through in his life, will shut down literally your immune system for four hours. What successful people do is they stack victories. Thats also what we did with him. We said theres a different set of rules. You cant come as a marine, youve got to come as a guy who was whole. What was it like before. When he tapped into the playful guy who has this jump in his step and is laughing, thats when the glasses came off and he said i want people to see my baby blues. People were cheering. He got to feel this connection with people at a human level. Thats what changes it. Its also having something you value more than your pain. He values mission. He values being able to make a difference. He needed a new mission back here at home. He has a new mission back here at home. Good for you. Thank you for your service. Thank you. 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My next guest knows exactly how they feel. Mike is a Business Owner who lost everything in 2008. I mean everything. Now hes overcome that financial ruin and runs two businesses with revenues worth 50 million. Congratulations. Thank you. Its been a roller coaster ride. Youve known tony for 17 years. And youve been up and down in that period of time. Correct. Tell me quickly the journey youve been on. I started off coming from a very challenging background, single mother, raised by a single mother. Had no education. And really, no hope. And what i always say, i was lucky that i was put in front of an icon of empowerment. He is. Every time i interview him, i feel empowered. Thats true. What he is is an incredible educator. By the grace of the universe i was able to fall in the lap of this educator. He helped get me out of that place where i was, where there was no hope. He was homeless at the time. What i love about mikes story, is mike just didnt help himself. He built a Small Business to start with. One of the young women who worked for him was addicted to meth. Is that right . Share the story and how you ended up in your new business. The young woman had come to work for me a number of years ago. You could tell something was wrong. She was addicted to methamphetamine. She was a daily user of ecstacy. I got her involved in mr. Robbins program. Within 30 days, she was completely off drugs. It turned out her father, her dad was incredibly successful in the Metal Recycling business. I got a call from him shortly thereafter who said anybody who has influence over human beings like this i need to do business with. Gave up half a million for me to start my company, cosigned, seven months later he allowed me to buy him out. Years later, i continued to grow and grow and grow. Amazing. Until 2008. You built up this 13 million business. And then you literally almost lost it overnight in the big crash of 08. It was interesting. Four months before the crash, tony calls me and says, mike, you need to prepare. And as everyone in the country kept saying, were strong. The economists are saying, were strong. I didnt listen to him. I should have listened to him. Why wouldnt you listen to tony robbins . Things were going great. That was mainly thanks to him. I know. Thats true. Overnight, as you know, the economy collapses. The metal business completely collapses. When that happened to you, and having gone from literally nothing, you were a homeless guy to 13 million business, and then it all disappears, what was that like for you . I didnt care about losing the material possessions. I had a 3yearold son at the time. Hes now 7. The only thing that was going through my mind was, how do i face my son. From the day he came home from the hospital, i was determined he was not going to grow up in the same environment that i did. And all i wanted to do is have my little boy sit on my lap when he was old enough and say, you know what, theres nothing you cant do. You can become anything. I dont want my boy to look up at me and say, daddy, if thats true, how come you havent done it . That was what was crushing my heart. I just could not fail. And come up with an excuse for this little boy. Tony, can anybody be like this . Or do you have to have a little bit of ferocity of spirit . I think ferocity of spirit is critical for everybody. But we all have it. Its like a muscle. Do we all have it . Sure we do. But courage unused becomes weaker. Determination unused gets smaller. Passion unexpressed gets smaller. Like any muscle, the more you use it. Hes been using it for years. His son, heres the other thing, he had a reason larger than himself. You see the pattern of all the people who have overcome. At the time he said he was worried about his employees and he really cares about his people. Heres the secret. But you have to make that shift where its no longer an excuse. If you give yourself an excuse, humans will take it. If youre going to take the island, you burn the boats. And he burned the boat and said im going to find the answer. He shifted to psychology and got the skills. Like i said earlier, its not just confidence. You have to have skill. He had both. He found the way. Show them what you did. After that particular business mastering program, as tony said, 80 of it is psychology, and 20 of it is mechanics, or the strategies. Unless you get the psychology down, the mechanics dont matter. I can tell you, from that day in november of 2008, where i made that decision, that i was not going to fail, and i kissed my lady and said, im going back to work, and we went out there and i learned how to export. And when there was no market for steel in the united states, i was able to export to several different countries. And we took off from there. We continued to grow. And it was just, again, about a mindset. Its about having a level of pride. For me, it was coming from where i come from, the name didnt mean a whole heck of a lot. I was determined to change that. Its something i call generational influence. Im not doing this for me. Im doing this for my son. Is that good advice, tony . There are millions and millions of americans out of work. Many suffering very hurt pride. Never mind anything else and real financial hardship. Is that a good focus to look at children, to look at other things and say, you know what, stop feeling sorry for myself, its for him, for her, for that. Most of the i think whats beautiful about most human beings is well do more for others we love than well ever do for ourselves. And motive does matter. If you just try to do something for yourself, you only get a certain level of insight. If you do it for others, it comes to a level of insight. Mike got the belief out of Business Mastery that money is still changing hands. I need to find out where to get that to add value to peoples lives. Where do i get it and where is that value available . What do you say to the people suffering in america right now . Tony is absolutely right. We need to take the focus off of ourselves and stop feeling sorry about ourselves. Its about serving humanity, its about serving people. Its all about service. And we have just got to get out there. Tony talked about earlier about retooling. Its about learning new skills. When i talked about finding an icon of empowerment, whether its anthony robbins, whether its someone like oprah winfrey, a school or university, you need to get in there and learn the new skills. Then youve got to get out there and youve got to perform by serving. Serving humanity. It isnt about me, it isnt about me making money or dollar amount, its about protecting the people that i love, the people that i care about. If you follow that formula, you cannot fail. What i said earlier about bitterness and anger and resentment, selfpity is also a complete waste of time and energy. Its perfectly understandable. All of those emotions are just barriers to getting back on your feet, arent they . Thats correct. All emotions serve. Anger, frustration, its all valuable, but not if you live there. All those emotions that create pain, theyre designed to get you to change, to do something. If you just sit and live in the emotion, and you dont do anything, the pain just gets deeper and it becomes your groove and your grave. If you shift those emotional states, cl is what we teach people to do, physically, not fake positive thinking, but with a real strategy, a real action plan, thats all business is, add more value than anybody else does and youll have a chance to win. Thats what hes done. Great story. Mike, great inspiration. Mike, good to meet you. My pleasure. Tony gives you five ways to immediately change your life. [ laughs ] now this is a test drive. 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