This is 35 minute. [applause] joe biden thank you, mr. President. Thank you, thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Thank you. [applause] much. Den thank you very thank you. I think maybe i should sit down now. [laughter] joe biden mr. President , it is an honor to be here. Board colbyr of the trustees, especially my good friend dean rows, colby trustee. , i canean this without say this without fear of contradiction, one of the wisest councils ever served as chief of offf, pete is a man incredible personal integrity. And a good friend. I was friends with his mom dad your they helped me when i was a 28yearold kid announced for the senate to get elected, and he has become Close Friends with my deceased son beau biden and my other son. Your trusty now living in washington, robert hoopes. Thank you. My fellow on every, degree honorents on every e, degree recipients, and mr. President , it has been a couple times. For you to complain about cold is a democracy. I have never been so cold here. , not asnot make maine much snow, i acknowledge. Thank you for choosing colby, president , come back we need you. [applause] and amazing grace, where are you . God love you, child. I tell you what, i am so proud of grace. , your honorentlemen mother had ans expression. I mean it sincerely. She would say, look at my eyes. I give you my word as a biden. She would say, remember, you are defined by your courage and you are redeemed by your loyalty. Gracie, she did not know you but she had you in mind. Remember, remember. You are defined by your courage. You know, to all the proud moms and dads, congratulations. You are about to get a pay raise. [laughter] joe biden no tuition next year. Maybe that is not quite true. Your mom, dad, grandparents, your family made a lot of sacrifices for you to be here, so stand up and give them a cheer. Stand up. [cheers] [applause] know, i findu commencement speech is the most difficult to give. I mean it sincerely. The reason i do is the fact, the faculty says, here we go again my 15th commencement speech to hear. Ay, the students a, sy hurry up, we have a party to go to. And parent say, Say Something meaningful to justify the tuition. [laughter] i will give it a try. I am inclined to do what the Commencement Speaker did the year that the cross graduated, bob hope was the Commencement Speaker at Georgetown University that your. That year. It was the middle of the vietnam war and he stood up after recognizing all the celebrities and faculty as he turned and looked at the students and said i have one thing to say, dont go. And he sat down. [laughter] joe biden the most meaningful speech given that year at commencement. But you know, i, the class of 2017, you made it. Im sure you arrived on this campus wondering what the next four years would be like, you were not sure what to expect. And then a few days later when school chucked you out into the wilderness, and those few days here areming up mean up. A wet sleeping bag, you do not know what to expect. Hashose four years, colby not only come to feel like home for most of you, i expect it has become family. It has become family and the people you are graduating with, you keep reflecting, you talk about this place. The students, the leaders who took you out into the woods, moms and dads, when you came together on saturday night to share your sunday i guess it was, sunday night to share your lives with one another and that is not some mandatory meeting, i am told it is story time. As pete heardll me say many times, the problem that is going on in the congress now is we do not tell stories anymore. It sounds silly, but i mean it. We do not know each other anymore. When you know somebody, mom has breast cancer, you know somebody dads just lost his job, or a sister that is sick. It makes it hard to dislike that person. You get to understand the secret of humanity. We used in other things in congress. You know those things here, i suspect, on sunday nights. And now you are listening to your speech, i finally understand all those hashtags about you. [laughter] joe biden you know. You will never forget the time that you spent here, hunkered down with friends, hoarding food so you would not have to leave the dorm during the snowstorms, or reaching out to each other to. Et a hungry jack team thatn a hockey beat bowden twice. [applause] i hopeen but the thing you remember most from your time ethosis the ss the here that sought to instill your sense of obligation that you would know each other as individuals. A culture of mutual accountability, accountability, and caring. Be a words, ba mule, that is what it is all about. This past election cycle turned up some of the ugliest realities in our country. Civilized discourse and a real debate gave way to the course startingetoric and session stoking of our darkest emotions. I thought we were past the days where it was acceptable for politicians at all levels to be fringestove bestow ideologies, even just by their silence. But the world is changing so rapidly, there are a lot of folks out there who are afraid. Good people. We know globalization has not been a benefit for all communities, struggling to get by. People are being displaced by the whole notion of digitalization. People are worried, a lot of people are worried. There is an overwhelming need for continued education. Those that graduate even in the sciences, within the next 15 years you will have to be reeducated. So much is going to change. So much is going to happen to keep pace with your profession, you have to continually continually be reeducated to keep up. A lot of people out there know they have to do that without any capacity to do it. Do not know how to get by. We saw how appealing to their fears and instincts rather than their better angels, as lincoln talked about, can still be at least temporarily powerful and politics. In politics. We saw how populism can seek to blame the troubles of a rapidly changing world on the other, it is always the outsider. I would not have lost my job before the reason i am not doing well, the immigrant, the minority, the transgender, anybody not like me, became a scapegoat. There is a reason i am falling behind. Why i cannot get a job. Seeingne for many of you this unfold was incredible a disorienting and disheartening, a disheartening experience. It was for me and Many Americans across the country. And it is understandable, but i assure you, it is temporary. I assure you, it is transitory. The American People will not sustain this attitude. And now is the time for engagement in leadership, so you have to hold, you have to hold onto the colby mentality once you leave campus. Because it will not only serve you well, it will serve our nation well. That is not hyperbole, i mean that literally. You have to be responsible to join into the ceaseless work of perfecting a more perfect union. We hold these truths selfevident, all men are created equal, they are in doubt by their creator with certain inalienable rights. We say those things, but think about what defines us as americans coming cannot to find an american based on ethnicity, you cannot define an american based on religion, you cannot define america by anything other acceptance ofnt the notions contained within our institutional structures. We hold these truths selfevident, that all men are created equal. We do not with practice it, but we know that is why we belong. No matter where we come from. It has been a long, long time, and uphill climb to make it real and we are nowhere near making it real and we have not always lived up to our ideals. We are respected around the world, not because of the exercise of our power, but the power of our example. That is why we are who we are. [applause] but, it is especially in moments when the world is in disarray and politics are in chaos, when there is a temptation to disengage, to throw our hands up, that is when it is most import for us to return to the basic principles, that is when we have to show our ideals remain undimmed, and it Still Matters to us as americans. It sounds corny, but it is really true. It is really true. For me, it goes back to something my father taught me. My father used to say, and i mean it, this is not a joke. My father was a graceful, high school educated man. A truly decent man. Every man, woman and child should be treated with respect and deserves to be treated with midi with dignity. My father would never walk by somebody begging. I would say he is going to use it to go out and drink. He would say, if he had a choice would he be standing there begging . No matter who it is. They are entitled to be treated with dignity. It goes to the heart of what it american, the right to dignity is what holds up these selfevident truths, of which we always talk about. Furthermore, when we treat people with american, the right to dignity, when we quip them with the ability to care for their families, it is harder for the politics and fear to find a home. So today, i want to talk to you about the importance of keeping dignity at the center of our society, and the center of your life as you go out into the world. Folks, each of you has a responsibility. You all know it, you have been taught it here, taught it before you came here. To treat people with dignity. You demand it for yourselves, you demand you be treated that way. Have toof us, all of us do better when it comes to building the bonds of empathy that folks who are not like us, are not like us, can know that we understand them. They cannot be living in a self reinforcing, self echo chamber we both for ourselves online. Encouragesur screens shallow relationships, it makes it easy to reduce others to stereotypes. Offrite another human being as a bad person, rather than somebody who just made a really bad decision. A person on the other side of the negotiating table, the other side of the political debate, the person who doesnt look like you, who lives in a community you have never visited, a person who has a different background, or religion than years yours. They are not some flattened version of humanity, reducible to a collection of parts and attributes. They are a whole person, flawed, struggling to make it in the world just like you. Ascribe yourork to opposition the same emotional complexity you find in yourself, that you possess. Your sunday storytime, learning to listen to one another, shape your own story in turn. It may be one of the most important things you have learned spending time here at colby. Because so often, over the course of time and public life i have found it comes down to just being personable. It is all about being personable. All politics, all International Relations is personable. I have met every major world leader in the last 42 years, without exception. I have had an awful lot of people who are supposedly, in fact, are very powerful. That not all those who are successful are happy. And i have found the one common trait that those who found that sweet spot between success and happiness, those person better personal. Caring about your colleague as they are dealing with a sick parent, or their child graduated from college, where the child is just an accident, that is the stuff that fosters real relationships, breeds trust, allows you to get things done in a complex world. It is a lesson i first learned when i got to the senate as a 30 euros kid. 30yearold kid. I didnt want to go to the senate. I was elected on november 3 and i was hiring my staff on december 18 in washington dc. I got a phone call from a young woman who did not know me and that is why they had her call me, and she said in monotone, mr. Biden, your wife is dead. Your daughter is dead. Sure your sons are going to make a bid to come home. And everything changed. Learned a lesson from that. I did not go, and mike mansfield, ed muskie, and some other senior senators said come and be sworn in and stay for six months. Only 1703 people have ever been sworn in, your wife worked hard to get you here, you owe it to your family. But i didnt want to go. The day was supposed to be sworn in i refuse to go to the senate, so i later learned i was probably the only senator in history ever sworn in in a hospital, because i do not want to leave my sons. They sent the secretary of the senate to swear me and. In. And senator mansfield who had more integrity in his finger them as people have in his whole body, he comes by every tuesday at 3 00, and he would give me an assignment. No senator gets an assignment. [laughter] joe biden not a joke. I was the first senator. I didnt know any better. Forook me a couple months me to figure out that he was taking my pulse to see how i was doing. It was the end of may, you see those two doors that the senators use a was on cspan . I walked down to the floor of the senate to determine when the last vote was going to be so that i could catch the train to go home to see my boys, which i did over 8300 times, they tell me. And as i walked down the floor, a very is dried named jesse holmes from North Carolina was excoriating ted kennedy and another good friend of mine, bob dole, who is still alive by the way, before introducing the precursor for the americans disability act. And he was going on how it was not the role of government and nobody had the right to tell a county or a business person or anybody else they had to curb cut, or buses had to accommodate, etc. I thought he was being heartless, so i sat down and senator mansfield looked at me and said, what is the matter joe . I went on for three minutes talking about how jesse helms had no redeeming value, i thought he was terrible. He looked at me when i finished in second the what if i told you that jesse holmes, three years ago, sitting in his home in raleigh, North Carolina with his wife thought in advertisements in early december for a young man with braces up to his hips, 14 years old, braces on his arms, saying all i want for christmas is for somebody to love me and take me home. What would you say if i told you that jesse and dot helms adopted that young man as their own child . I would say, i feel like a full. He said, well they did. Always appropriate to question another man or woman judgment, but it is never appropriate to question their motive, because you do not know. And once you . Questionce you motive, you make it impossible to reach a compromise. I say you are in the pocket of, canou are unethical, or you talk about things that go to the heart of you as a person, it is also hard to reach an agreement on an issue that has to be resolved. At the same time, you have a responsibility to stand up against in dignities, you are committed, you have to be committed everywhere against any and all those folks out there that want to dim the rights of other people. But you cannot start by questioning peoples motives, because an injury to the rights of any person diminishes all of our humanity. Know, if you you are defending the dignity and it requires abuse of power at the end of the day, the has been the underlying principle behind every issue ive ever gotten involved in and i suspect all of you with your political passion and personal passion is directed throughout my life and i guess years. That is why i got involved in the Civil Rights Movement doing citizens as a high school kid. That is why i enjoyed the Environmental Movement led by senator muskie. It is why pushing back against companies that are abusing their power, polluting our environment, something i am sure many of you studied in your classes. That is why i pushed so hard in belgrade,utcher who is literally engaging in genocide. That is why i worked so hard and wire wrote the womens act in the late 1990s. That is why i remain committed to ending sexual assault, especially on campuses. [applause] my father used to say that the greatest sin was the abuse of power, and the cardinal sin of all sins was a man lifting his hand to a woman or child. Women have the same exact right to be treated with dignity as a man. I am determined that my granddaughters, capable of doing anything a man can do, anything in man can do that they are treated that way. [applause] joe biden so each and every one of you has to stand up to the indignity of sexual assault, stand against the indignity of excusing harassment, talk about ending this notion in locker rooms that the talk that goes on, it does not go on some but he said it does. Stand up against in dignities of a culture that devalues womens humanity. Michelle, congratulations to you and your award today, im so glad kobe is recognizing your service to preventing colbys record as your service to preventing sexual violence. Is entire Colby Community building a culture of consent for everyone here on campus, usluding joining the its on campaign, which i continue to be involved in. I hope you carry that conviction with you off of this campus and throughout your lives. Hold on to all those convictions you learned on the hill, because you are going to face temptations along the way to rationalize and make choices that the people second. Put people second. Everybody does. There is an incredible on my pressure on your generation to succeed. You already going through so much, but you might notice that you start slipping into a bubble that validates certain choices, that prioritizes the social trappings of success rather than making a difference. Place,e job, live in the hang out with people, just like you. Take no real risks, have no real impact. Defending dignity requires more than just watching out for your own opportunities or looking out for your own success, because no matter what you think, you cannot erect a bubble around yourself and your family to protect them. This degree will not protect you from the pressures of a changing world, as prestigious as it is. What happens to your community affects you. If your sister is a victim of domestic violence, you are violated. If your brother cannot marry the man he loves, you are lessened. If your best friend has to worry about being profiled, you live in a circumstance not worthy of us. And if you cannot breathe free air and clean air, there is no place to hide no matter how much money and success you accomplish. So folks [applause] you have to reach beyond yourself. Possiblee know what is when people get a chance to explore their talents without being held back. There is no better example of that than my dear friend, george mitchell. The last in a long line of majority leaders in the senate, along with bob dole, actually helped generate consensus in the senate. He went on to be a real diplomat and peacemaker, ending decades of conflict in Northern Ireland and quite literally saving hundreds and hundreds of lives. George is the son of a janitor. His dad worked right here at colby, his mother worked in a textile mill. He watched his parents. My parents would say, your job is about more than a paycheck, it is about dignity, respect, it is about your place in the community. It is about being able