With six people in a room. It was hard it was for. I even got white hair. And it hit me a lot this gets me a little but uniquely to interact with the site you want to do their story. Its hard to get reliable information for margaret. Out or fall hama suffers from dementia or not a punish tara is his caregiver friends feel like. I miss my family but it is what it is i need money for medication and to support myself here. Is from chester covert in poland Eastern European caregivers ring a great demand in germany like here in vern our in the southwest of the country thats because few germans want such low paying jobs its good money for denard but
she only goes home to poland every few months. You know you. Dont matter tends to adults practically around the clock which means he can keep living at home. Yes they had a good nights sleep is an experienced caregiver she helps him with all of his every day needs with patience and good chia. No lives sure who you make these are the answers ive been at his side for six years now almost seven we know each other very well. Been i always spent three months in germany and one in poland well thats just how it is. Well sounds like things to muffle the caregiving routine has created a strong bond that incites. I dont seems content the eighty year old once worked for the railway he bought his house started a family had two children then his wife passed away five years ago he began showing signs of dementia his daughter often stopped spot on earth is that. How is everything done thank goodness everything is fine. And good handle the paperwork and Everything Else adult needs the memory loss has turned his life upside down. He used to be full of energy athletic dynamic and helpful and now he needs help and thats something you have to get used to. Oh my god its so hard i could never do this. He says you can tell he doesnt like it and that would make it hard for me. To my heart has everything under control much to put it gets relief or its these or doc taught almost before did not i was here i had to take care of him for a few days and i found myself in some impossible situations when i had to take care of his personal hygiene. I couldnt do it just isnt it this hobby now they did not is here to look after him and i dont have to do it myself because he cant manage everything of course like when my father falls down the steps but at least hes living at home which is really important decisions consoled me he. Has a dog thats mine i dont think my father recognises me anymore but thats just how it is. Do you recognize my face right there good. Question does he know that im right. But if you look at toys you know. Thats good you talk about. Tanada takes the opportunity to skype with her husband. The conversations seeing him is important for her even if its just on the computer screen. Of long. Oh yeah shes also hoping to get a chance to talk to her three children and two grandchildren. None of the years money will go but so much of a adult keeps her busy throughout you know no no no no no please dont sit down. Its an exhausting job and shes already fifty five years old herself. Myers has referred to. Is
a highlight of adults today but its not clear just how much longer hell be able to live at home. Dont matter stand up to music it reminds her of life in poland and her husband. I. Think. I used to dance with my husband often he was a good dancer but not anymore. It was a great time those days are in the past now to nada spends most of the time in germany at old son stops by fergus that what needs doing in the garden will be being outdoors and tending to the garden brings the family together. The reception at once or night we can take care of our father selves because he needs around the clock assistance to rethink your own movie toy involved on this issue thats hard to do when youve got a regular day job. To not
a very warm and caring and how she tends to her father does me very good and i wouldnt be that sandra even though or maybe because hes our own father has finished all violence insofar as. Then its time to say they go by as. You know they dont know where to go. And truth just. Very different from those she mind of it lets say goodbye to the young man actually. The next day adult and to a heading to your lantus will shop its become an important Meeting Point for polish caregivers invent now. Your land helps connect german families with polish caregivers theyre highly sought after which is Good Business for your land the regular meeting also helps the caregivers cope with feeling homesick and adult enjoys the company. We meet practically every second or third day sometimes every day so theyre not as dependable she looks out for adults. We polish women we cook clean bake we do everything. At your land has the caregivers also get practical help and advice both will remove. The threat of separate but be a truth or fact the fellow to take it up with a really serious. Or at all vile hama is better off than many elderly germans who need care hes able to keep living at home thats not financially feasible for
many families and many dont have the space at hand its a good job for janata though being away from her family for months is a high price to pay the room of a student even tired yes thats true i work a lot every day. If you are by three and i miss my family. Most but thats how it is so i need the money for medication for my life my apartment them and feel like ive been. Here a whole new. Here but im glad when i go home and see my husband and children. Right now. She spent almost three months here without a single day off now shes heading back to poland. You Take Care Of Yourself dont forget to eat and drink. Blood take care of
yourself. Some two Hundred Thousand East EuropeanWomen Workers cant give is in germany today many of them are old enough to retire themselves. Is just one of many polish can give us on the past. Theyre exhausted but happy to be heading home. After a seventeen hour bus Journey Janata has reached Chester Carver her oldest son patrick is there to pick her up. About his family lives on the outskirts of the city four people in a fifty five square meter apartment. His son alexander is on the couch. There is
a girl known here on the whole exam very good i mean first hes not in a very welcoming mood his mother has been gone for three months. But the apartment has been spruced up and the dog is happy to greater. Reason go all through the finally her husband less shit returns higher than. Hes been a tireless pleasure like adolphine germany suffers from kidney disease. Slowly family life gets back into the swing of things. Out of habit john murtha speaks to her husband in germany it takes some getting used to being back in poland so much as you approach it like no theres my husbands tired because hes had a five hour dialysis session. But everythings fine. Later they head off for
a walk in the countryside just the two of them. Also i. Will say why dont you go. For a few hours they leave their worries behind. You. Lovely right here i feel very happy when im here i love this place. Its not too crowded and its so quiet. Man if you know where you. Live whenever shes back in Chester Carver dont matter visits the yes no go ramona straight to pray. The good last hour i go to the monastery and thank god that i made it back to poland in good health through dick all. Of the journey went well. And that my
family is doing well. Again how you do i get my strength and my energy from god. Well fluid. Despite her strength and optimism she feels torn about the latter accepts her situation as it is. That people of the world over w. On facebook and twitter up to date and in touch. Follow us. Germany state by state. Colorful. The liveliest. The most traditional. Find it all at any time. Check