Cover story, reported by tracy smith. I dont want this to be too painful, but do you remember that conversation where you said i want to end this . Fairly well, yes. Because she cried and she cried some more. 30 years after breaking her heart, Donna Hanovers exboyfriend came back and like a lot of couples in their shoes the old spark was still there. That brain circuitry is lying like a sleeping cat and it can be awakened at every moment. Making a future with someone from your past. Ahead this sunday morning. Osgood love songwriter john legend for his wife is literally for the record as rita braver will be showing us. So what happens when you get a love song to the woman your song. Does your wife cut you any slack because you wrote that song for her. Whatever credit i got for that love song has long been exhausted. Later john legend on his love song and his oscar nominated civil rights anthem. Osgood diamonds truly are a girls best friend and plenty of women would like to be best friends with the jewelers, jane pauley will be telling us about. Reporter when it comes to adorning the worlds most glamorous women who does it better than cartier. Beautiful women do look beautiful in beautiful jewels, dont they . Thats right. Thats why they have always chosen jewelers like cartier to express themselves. Ahead on sunday morning cartier the fabled french jeweler. Osgood over years no idle words for the couple lee cowan will take us to meet. How about this picture thats quite a look there. Cupids arrow may never have been so sure as when they struck dale and alice roger. They have been married 81 years and counting. What is it like to grow old together . I, it is wonderful. Wonderful yes thats a good word. Thats why i looked at him and said it, so he would repeat it. A love story for the ages, later on sunday morning. Osgood those stories and more. First the headlines for this sunday morning february 15th, 2015. Police in copenhagen today shot and killed the man suspected of carrying out two shootings only hours apart, last night one person died and two Police Officers were wounded, when a gunman opened fire near a downtown synagogue. Earlier one person was killed and three officers were wounded, the, at a free speech gathering at a cultural center. The Prime Minister said denmark has been hit by terror. For the fourth time in less than a month the northeast is being pounded by yet another snowstorm. Southern new england will get more than a foot of snow, maine up to two feet. To make matters worse tonight the, they are expected to suffer through sub zero temperatures. The faa is announcing today it will allow the use of lightweight drones for commercial purposes like aerial photography, mapping and bridge inspections. As for todays weather with snow piling up in the northeast, it will be chilly down south, but there will be plenty of sunshine and mild temperatures out west. And for tomorrow, president s day, storms will spread across the Southern Plains and the southeast, the west coast is the place to be. Next, first love lost. So you gave up new york for love. She did. I did. And found. Osgood and later a gem of a story. Huh, fifteen minutes could save you fifteen percent or more on car insurance. Everybody knows that. Well, did you know words really can hurt you . What. . Jesse dont go jesse. No im sorry daisy, but im a loner. And a loner gotta be alone. Heee yawww geico. Fifteen minutes could save you fifteen percent or more. Jesse . Osgood to have loved and lost, but, is better than never to have loved at all the poet alfred lord tennison wrote. But what about love that has been lost and found again . Our cover story is reported by tracy smith. It seemed that Donna Hanover was unlucky in love. Todays turn of events brings me great sadness. I had hoped to keep this marriage together. In 2001, her marriage to new york mayor Rudolph Giuliani went down in flames. And that wasnt her first broken heart. In the 1960s her high school boyfriend, ed aster dumped her in her freshman year at stanford, but in the summer of 2002, as she was still smarting from her divorce, auster gave her a call out of the blue. Told me he was divorced and going to be in town for some business, would i have coffee with him . So we took a long walk in central park and he said to me, i am so sorry made you cry. All those years ago. And i was stunned because, you know, he stopped writing for an apology for three or four months. Still, there were plenty of butterflies and a year later wedding bells. Will you ever let her go again . Never, this is my lost treasure, my lost treasure found, never to be lost again. It is a great story but it is not really all that unusual. According to a study by a Cal State University professor, former sweethearts who meet up later in life and are single have a better than 70 percent chance of getting back together for good. Rutgers anthropologist helen fisher. What is it about lost love that is so powerful . Well, first of all you never forget the person, and if the timing is right then they come back, you can trigger that brain circuitry for romantic love almost instantly and be back in love again. And there is no stirrings date. , expiration date. She fell in love with a boy in middle school before she went away for a life on the stage. 30 years later she found harry again and fell immediately back in love and married him at age 82. He passed away in 2011. When actor fred savage moved to los angeles as a kid for his tv series, he left a young neighbor behind, 11 years later, they reconnected and tied the knot. Do these young loves imprint themselves on our brain . I do think they do. That imprinting becomes powerful. Suddenly that is the body type you really like so you look for that in other people, so 0 if that person comes back into your life decades later whoa. Trigger that brain circuitry and off to the races even at first sight. In other words the person you have been looking for could be as close as your high school yearbook. Diana beater man was a 15yearold sophomore in old tap, new jersey when she first laid eyes on vinny back in 1979. I just remember seeing him and just sort of melting. Melting . Melting. They dated and after a few steamy weeks vinny moved on. He wound up in north carolina, a businessman with a wife and two kids. Diana became a highpowered new york publicist for places like the 21 club. But her love life was one heartbreak after another. They never married. I had great friends, i had a great career. So had you decided okay, i am cool, i am single, this is how it is going to be . I believed it and i talked to the cat. But by 2013 vinny was divorced and after 30 years apart he went looking for his lost love a the way a lot of people do now on the internet. You made the initial connection . I did. She actually responded in about two hours. They agreed to meet for a weekend. It went well, so well that after decades of being alone diana finally allowed herself to get her hopes up. When we got to the airport whenever the weekend was up, i think i had this emotional mess. I could not stop crying because i had so much disappointment in my previous relationships i thought, you know, maybe i should just appreciate this for the weekend it was and dont plan on hearing from him again. You couldnt dare to let yourself think no, because what if he wasnt going to call me . Everybody was trying to comfort me. What is the matter . What is the matter . It is like i just had the best date. Diana and vinny were married a year ago this month. This is what is left. Thatyearold wedding cake never tasted so good. Love it seems really can be sweeter the second time around. Coming up, the science of sex. If one is looking for pornography, have a long look. How much money do you have in your pocket right now . I have 40 21. Could something that small make an impact on something as big as your retirement . I dont think so. Well if you start putting that towards your retirement every week and let it grow over time, for twenty to thirty years that retirement challenge might not seem so big after all. Osgood it wasnt enough that masters and johnson investigated all those questions about sex people were afraid to ask. As Martha Teichner tells us tell us what they found. How is it . Wonderful. Beyond our fondest expectations. When tv was black and white and attitudes toward sex were too, their book, human sexual response detonated rather than just appeared. Masters and johnsons work was sprung on the world in april of 1966 to a great deal of shock. Dr. Robert coloud any worked with master and johnson for 30 years. The fact that a physician and his Research Assistant at that time had been doing Laboratory Studies of people actually having sex was eye opening. They seemed so tame. Dr. Bill masters and Virginia Johnson. Deliberately cooling down a hot topic. If one is looking for pornography, they can have a long look. There is nothing of a very exciting nature in this book. Oh, but there was. And to their own story as well. Masters and johnson dealt with virtually every aspect of human sexual at this. He wrote a biography of masters and johnson. Instead of the male being the more powerful of the sexes, what they were clinically showing is that women actually had a greater capacity for sex. They found out that older people can enjoy sex. His book inspired the show time drama masters of sex which shows in some steamy detail how exactly gynecologist masters began his research in 1954. Observing prostitutes. Their studies were conducted in absolute secrecy at Washington University in st. Louis. If i can make the camera small enough, and out of view it, we will actually witness it in realtime. To discover what happened to a woman during sex. Soon after he hired johnson a divorced mother of two without a College Degree, masters pressured her to have sex with him. Two of us should undertake the research ourselves. As part of their work she said that she really didnt want to have sex with him, but she didnt want to lose this job. In todays terms that would be yes definitely it would be considered sexual harassment. But in 1970, masters divorced his wife of 29 years and almost immediately married johnson. By then, their names had long been linked professionally masters and johnson, like procter gamble. A brand. So you would argue that Virginia Johnson deserved the equal billing she got . Oh, absolutely. Even though she didnt have a College Degree . Absolutely. Her signal contribution to my mind is that she played a very key role in designing the approach to sex therapy that they took. Then the prevailing success rate for treating sexual problems maybe 15 percent. They reported an astonishing 80 percent. The best part, the treatment only took two weeks. They taught couples how to touch one another again literally had to communicate physically, has had it broken down. Playboy hugh hefner bankrolled their work as the talk of sex became more candid they informed the conversation. You have just done what masters and johnson would call a premature ovation. The laughter was goodnatured until the publication of their book on homosexuality in 1979. I assume you consider the key finding which some people are surprised and some people seemingly are disagreeing with all right you can convert the people who want to be converted from homosexuality to at the time row sexuality . Actually, this is true. Masters was ridiculed, his conversion results questioned. Do you in your heart of hearts believe that at some level dr. Bill masters exaggerated yes. Fabricated . At least exaggerated. And then came the bombshell, the couple who taught other couples about sex was getting a divorce. In 1992, after 21 years of marriage, masters left johnson for another woman. Regardless of the tragic way their love story ends, fundamentally, their story is about bringing medicine and science into the discussion of sexuality. Masters died in 2001 johnson in 2013. Their once famous names practically forgotten. These are the names we know now. Vaginal cream treats vaginal changes due to menopause. Talk to your doctor about viagra. Loves in the air. Osgood coming up. Imagine when we are up to 11 or 12. Osgood recipe for love. Thi sometimes the present looked bright. Sometimes romantic. There were tears in my eyes. And tears in my eyes. And so many Little Things that we learned were really the biggest things. Through it all, we saved and had a retirement plan. And someone who listened and helped us along the way. Because we always knew that someday the future would be the present. Every someday needs a plan. Talk with us about your retirement today. [coughing] dave, im sorry to interrupt. I gotta take a sick day tomorrow. Dads dont take sick days, dads take nyquil. The nighttime, sniffling sneezing, coughing aching, fever, best sleep with a Cold Medicine. Physical activity. But keeping that mix balanced, isnt always easy. So coke, dr. Pepper, and pepsi are joining your efforts to find balance with the new initative called mixify. Coming together for the first time to talk to teens about balancing what they eat and drink with what they do. And helping them think about when theyve had too much, or maybe when its time for a treat. Supporting your efforts, with our message. Balance what you eat and drink with what you do. Thats how you mixify. Damselfly,. Osgood for those who believe aphrodisiacs put love into romance, but do these love motions really work. Michelle miller tells us she has been doing some research. When it comes to aphrodisiacs. Chef mark is somewhat of a love guru, this valentines day his menus of booster shot for passion and desire. After about 70 courses you will have 25 different after disjacks. Which are ready to go. An early course, a special parfait including the oyster along with lesserknown aphrodisiacs like apple and beat root. They help relax your mind and your body and your soul and kind of get you ready. That isnt bad. Should we go get a room . Just kidding. See that is after only four imagine when we are up to 11 or 12. You would be surprised how many things are considered aphrodisiacs. Almost anything that exists has been considered and tried as an aphrodisiac overtime from evergreen to zebra tongues and a very long list inbetween. What does that say about us . Aphrodisiacs are bounded only by our imaginations, which thankfully are more fertile than the bodies we are trying to stimulate. She is a physician who teaches food studies at new york university. Aphrodisiacs have been around for millennia. We all have the biological imperative to secure a meal and a date. Some pretty famous lovers populate afro dick jack love. Klee pa tra whewed with rose petals. And 50 cups of chocolate before visiting his harem and then there was cass nova, one of his favorite tricks was to seduce a young virgin by slipping raw oysters through her parted lips. What makes something an aphrodisiac . It starts with the name itself. Aphrodite was the goddess of love in greek mythology when she spraining from the sea on a shell, lots of seafood became sure bets, in the middle ages would be lovers identified afro aphrodisiacs thanks to something called the law of similarities. Which was a medieval philosophy held in gods universe something declared its usefulness through its shape, through its appearance if something looked virile and phallic and strong and erect, that it might confer those very properties on whoever consumed it. Take asparagus and carrots you get the idea. True believers also point to chemicals like cap say similar in chile peppers and chocolate but big picture the Scientific Evidence lets just say is thin. Focus focus loves in the air. You know the expression love is in the air. Back in his restaurant mark starts his valentine dessert course with a spritz, a mystery fragrance for romantic guessing game. Now i would be doing this and i was creating something sensual. To rachel author of the scented desire, it is okay for the ladies to offer up the wrist. But it is a lot better from an attraction perspective if i got to put a dab on the man i was with and then smell him. Why is that . Well, thats because actually scent matters much more to women than to men in terms of attraction and, in fact, for women it is the number one physical feature in a man that says yes or no. And despite what those accents would have us believe rachel says in the realm of scent just as with food there are no proven aphrodisiacs. Except if you personally have a smell you find erotic or arousing and therefore it is, it is an aphrodisiac for you. But for ladies thinking longterm, she argues mens cologne mask what a woman really needs to smell, a mans natural scent, and the biological information it contains. The genetics of your immune system are manifested by your body odor that means everybody has a unique body odor and what a woman is doing when she is sniffing a man is she is sensing whether or not the immune system of that man is complementary to her immune system and therefore most likely to yield a healthy child. A match truly made in evolutionary heaven. For all that herr said, as a species we are gullible about what turns us on. Just because it is learned doesnt make it not real so if i have an association to roses that means romance for me, then it is romance for me and if that works for you it works for you and thats the most important thing. It is all up here. It is all up here and here. As dr. Ruth westheimer once observed the brain may be the biggest sex organ as all. Many times thinking something is a aphrodisiac makes it so the power of imagination cant be underestimated in the world of aphrodisiacs. You have to look inside and figure out what you any is fun and exciting. Osgood you have questions . He has got answers. These are dumb. Osgood next. Osgood dear dad is how you might a address a question to one of americas cutting edge advise columnist. We have paid him a visit. That is supposed to have a purpose. It is supposed to Say Something it is supposed to say i love you. For nearly 50 years a great many teenagers dont think of anything going all the way anymore. She was a grandam as advice columnist. I know what is going on. Ann landers. We will need four volunteers from the audience. Who want lap dances. But times change. Today the lost and the lovelorn. You have to look inside and figure out what you think is fun and exciting. Looking for advice. For a threeway. To this straight talking gay man. This is dumb. And sometimes the dumb is genuine and sometimes the dumb is strategic. This is where the tragic happens. His name is danza advantage and at his office in seattle he gets inspiration from ann landers desk. This is my prized possession. Your prized possession . Yes. He bought it at aucti