And at some point, i fell asleep with my sister just trying to comfort me. The next day, nathan said he was struggling with the fact that his wife was gone, and now had to explain that to his kids. I had been with janel when i found out. I had still not been with Seth And Julie and at that point, i did not know what they knew, what they had found out, what they had seen on the news or whatever else. I did not want them to find out the way i had found out. How did you tell the children that their mother had been killed . It was Friday Morning and i believe the children suspected something. After they had eaten, and after i had spent time begging the lord for Wisdom And Strength to know what to say, we took them