Its like, i didnt like that. Then the next day its like, ooh, let me try it again. Oh, let me try it again. And then i didnt really blossom until i was about 30. But ive been very aware since, um. 227, actually, and before that how fabulous they are. But up until then, i thought it was just my face. So yeah. laughter i, as you probably know, i had large large large breasts. Ive known you a long time. We go way back. You had some big gazoombas. I did. And i wore them well. In hairspray, my bra size, it was a 44dd. But that was and the marks you used to get. I had the ridges, i had back pain. It was horrible. So it wasnt something that i embraced. I didnt feel sexually attractive because of my breast size. Im not saying you were as big as i was, but its something that youve always embraced. Right. And it worked for you. Its like they work now, but you gotta be able to back it up. You know what i mean . laughter no, i dont know what you mean. Uh, well, you know, i try to empower young women. Specifically ages 16 to 54, cause it could take 50 years before you realize how wonderful you are, trust me. What im saying is if youre gonna portray this sexual thing and this sexual angle, then dont tease a guy, dont tease whoever it is that youre trying to seduce. Mmhmm. And i learned that after about three times, you know . In other words, so if youre gonna be that sexual creature, like a la marilyn monroe, theres a bad side to it too, because youll be called names. Youll be teased. Youll be objectified. And you can be a gorgeous woman with a great but if youre in high school looking like that, you stand out. If youre gonna be that kinda woman, you gotta be able to back that up. Dont be afraid of it. But once you get of age and you can use it like Pamela Anderson or Something Like that, then feel free. If you can handle it. Everybody cant handle being a sex symbol. You know what i mean . Yeah, i giggles you obviously handle it well. You are now single, right . You were married for a long time. Oh, yeah. And you live with your ex. You can ask me about my dating life. A mess i wanna ask about heres your ex. Yeah, elgin charles. Oh, my gosh, hes amazing. Did the show Beverly Hills fabulous. Yes. This is his hair. Thats his hair. Its fabulous. How does it work . You all live together, you raise your son together. Hes 19. Frank. How do you manage to have a dating life and still live with your ex . I have to sneak off to the notell motel. laughter where you rent by the hour. Actually, i dont bring any men home, because i think thats disrespectful. And i dont him bringing nobody in my house. But hes got a girlfriend. Shes gorgeous. So it works out. Ive had a great life, so its not over. But if he gets his own apartment, i wouldnt be mad. You know what i mean . But i want him close. I dont want him too far away cause i love him to death. I cant be bringing too many men up around him. cause its just too much work. So no boyfriend right now . I didnt say that. laughter whats your perfect man . Describe him. Uh, have a job. all laughing . Has nice clothing, nice shoes, specifically. cause men look here, but women, we look at the face, then we look at your shoes. If your shoes are raggedy that means you aint got no job. Okay. And you aint got no car. Right . Does he need to be a career man . Do you like someone in the business . Yes. No, not in the business. No . No. No. But a career man. And patient with me, cause im crazy and very selfabsorbed. Im an actress. And my career youre a good time. I can tell. Youre a good time. Yeah, im a good time, girl, but then i want you to leave. laughter the doctors laughing. Yeah. When he came, i was like, mmm, he got on a nice suit and a nice i said, mmm mmm, he got some money. Wait, lets talk about your new show the first family. Whats your character like . Yes, im having fun. Byron allen produced it. And were on, um, saturdays at 5 00 here in l. A. And 8 00 in the other time zones in america. And its myself, john witherspoon, who i love, i adore. Christopher duncan from jamie foxx. Kellita smith from bernie mac. Gladys knight and guess, marla gibbs from 227. ricki gasps can you believe it . Oh, my goodness. And the four darling little kids. Thats amazing. And whats your character . Im the sisterinlaw to the president , and i hate him, of course. laughs and you use your boobs to work for you . Everything i got. Everything you got. Well, you are awesome. Will you stay around for a little bit . Okay. All right. Up next, it lifts, separates and brings your best assets forward, but finding the perfect bra after radical weight loss can be a challenge. Well find out why when we come back. My thing more so is now when you lose a lot of weight, you get a lot of skin. So i mostly have a lot of skin now that i cant really get good cleavage with. Dr. Griffin, what can someone like rayo do to get rid of the extra skin . Did you see a difference in the way men treated you . The way society treated you . I got a lot of dates. laughter donuts . Youre cute. [ door closes ] [ female announcer ] new special k proteicereal helps keep you fuller longer. Willpower. What will you gain when you lose . How ya doin . Mmm. [ birds chirping ] okay bye bye [ female announcer ] help satisfy your hunger longer with special k protein bars and shakes. Willpower. What will you gain when you lose . Creates the perfect smoky eye protein bars and shakes. Loreal voluminous smoldering liner super intense pigments smoldering it doesnt get more smokin than this bewitching voluminous smoldering liner from loreal paris [ male announcer ] your kids make great things. So give them a tasty, wholesome snack that has eight grams of whole grain. Ands now made with real strawberries and bananas. Honey maid teddy graha. Two new flavors now made with real fruit. Behind the silver of philadelphia cream cheese. It always begins with fresh local milk blended with real, wholesome cream. Going fresh from the farm, to our fridge, in just six days. Because we believe in fresh taste. Thats the way we set the standard for intensely rich, luscious flavor. So our story of fresh taste always ends, deliciously. When it comes to taste, philadelphia sets the standard. Ive actually been measured and im a 30 34c. 34d. I wear a 34c. 32e. My breasts arent as perky as they used to be. I wouldnt mind pumping them up. Gravity has definitely taken place in my breasts, so theyre like droopy. My breasts are too big. Theyre small, but theyre perky. Sittin pretty. laughs perfect . Oh, wow. Okay, were back with jackee. And were talking about, what . Breasts all right, our next guest rayo lost more than 70 pounds in 16 months. But as she found out, diet and exercise does not solve everything. Take a look. My breasts stress me out. My breasts started growing when i was about 11 years old. And then the weight started coming on when i was 13. They grew extremely large to the point of where i couldnt even see my feet. Then gaining all this weight into college with breasts so big that people are like, ohh. People would constantly make comments too, which was also very embarrassing. So now i have lost 70 pounds, which is amazing. And my breasts are half the size. And now the skin just hangs. Im a young woman, but i feel like when i look at my breasts, i think i look like my grandma. Theres always some reminder of what it used to be. I wont even look at myself. I take showers in the dark and i just avoid looking at myself naked. It just. Makes me feel sick. crying oh, my god, im sorry. sniffles im dreading the day that i meet a man that i fall in love with and then hes gonna run. Thats what im afraid of, yeah. That really makes me sad. Please welcome rayo. applause first off, congratulations. Thank you so much. I mean, losing all that weight how did you do it . We all wanna know. Lots of exercise, water. I got off sugar and flour and dairy. So i do just protein, vegetables and things that you can grow. So it wasnt like a magic pill or anything . Nope. Strictly hard work and dedication. I feel amazing. Definitely. I feel applause thank you. What was your bra size at your heaviest . I never knew my bra size. Again, when i was little, i had like a ccup around like the age of 11 or so. And then once i had hit my highest weight, i just never wanted to go to bra shops and find out. My thing more so is now when you lose a lot of weight, you get a lot of skin. So i mostly have a lot of skin now that i i cant really get good cleavage with. I have to tuck it in. And of course, without a bra, its not very goodlooking. Well, joining us the handsome gentleman that you pointed out, jackee. Oh, he fine you like his shoes, you like his shoes. I like his whole suit. Right. His shoes. Dr. Anthony griffin is a Beverly Hills cosmetic surgeon and he is familiar with rayos case. Okay, dr. Griffin, what can someone like rayo do to get rid of the extra skin . Unfortunately, the only way to get rid of the extra skin is actually to tailor it and do a breast lift. Some patients, if youre happy with your size, you can actually do a breast lift plus an implant. But youre not necessarily committed to an implant. In rayos case, do you think that she needs implants . No, i dont think so. Particularly women who usually theyre in the wrong size bra anyway, and most women whove had big breasts dont really wanna continue that largeness. They just want something thats proportionate to their body. I think thats the key. So what do you think youre gonna do . Do you think youll have that surgery . Im gonna get the surgery. Definitely. I would feel a lot better. You feel like you lose all this weight, you like Everything Else, but then other things just dont go back. Well, youre gorgeous no matter what. Thank you so much. Whether you have it or not. Congratulations. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. Thank you. Our next guest says that being small, curvy and wellendowed can be a backbreaker, especially if youre wearing the wrong bra. In fact, she was so frustrated by what was available, that she started her own business. So we sent rayo to her store for a fitting. Take a look. My name is jenette goldstein. Im the proprietress at jenette bras. And our slogan is the alphabet starts at d. We are a fullcup bra store. I think a majority of women are wearing the wrong bra size. So what size have you been wearing . This bra is a 34dd. Im gonna get you a 32g. This is definitely a relief to my back. It feels great. Takes the weight off your shoulders because the support is coming right from here. Some of the common problems of a poorlyfitted bra is the double boob. Your cup runneth over. Another one is too much cleavage. Good bras are engineered like suspension bridges. The bra should be snug. This bra is an example of a bra that is tacking correctly. The center gorge right up against her breastbone, the wire is all the way around the breast. My issue is i have a lot of loose skin. Right. I lost 70 pounds. You got this bra at a drug store. Yes. Right. Okay. The majority of women have uneven breasts. Looks for bras that are cut and sewn. Which means they are built out of three different parts of material, so that the bra can expand, like a stretch lace, or it can contract subtlety to make up for the difference. This is the best fit ive ever had. Everything stays in. All the loose skin, you cant tell. Here we have a sheer panel. So its like vaseline on the lens. Right. Good bras are expensive. You should not take your ferrari to a cheap mechanic, and you should not put your gorgeous rack in a cheap bra. applause if that isnt words to live by. Oh, my goodness. Please welcome the owner of jenette bras, jenette goldstein. Hi, jenette. Hi thats awesome, and im making an appointment. Im coming to you. All right. What inspired you to start this business . What inspired me was seeing a photo of myself at my sons graduation. And i thought i was looking great. And i looked both matronly and vulgar at the same time. chuckles what was the problem . Well, i was well, i was wearing a bra that the band was too big, the cup was way too small and so you just kinda go down and out. So i went to find i thought, well, maybe im like a 38dd or something . And it turns out im a 32g. pats couch okay, so yeah. So whats the biggest mistake that we make . The support. The support comes from the band. Okay. Not the straps. The band has got to be snug. If its not snug, you are going down. All right, well, im fascinated with all things breasts. Coming up next, breast implants in Orange County are about as common as sunshine in california. But when real housewives of Orange County star tamra barney removed her implants, she says that she embraced her selfworth. Well talk with her right after this break. Stay with us. I went through a really bad divorce, and i really didnt feel like. I knew who i was. And i wanted to take my life back. Guys, how can you tell if a woman has implants . First of all, fake breasts, they just. laughter you can push the person, and the breasts are still right there. They dont move. Welcome back. We are talking about breasts today with the sassy miss jackee. cheers, applause weve watched real housewives of Orange County star tamra barney survived a bitter divorce, tear up during a Marriage Proposal and bare her claws during a catfight. And shes certainly not shy about revealing her feelings on camera. Take a look. shouting this is how you hail a cab, girl tamra and eddie are finally ready cheers beautiful, guys. camera clicks stop asking me when were gonna get married. I dont need the pressure. If you dont want to get married, why did you ask . Hello. Lauri is back in the mix oh my god. Dont trust her. Dont let her back in. Why does she hate me so much . I dont even know what i did to her. Tamra, butt out. Butt out . You get out done well, please welcome one of the stars of bravos the real housewives of Orange County, tamra barney cheers, applause welcome. Hi. Hi great to have you here. Thank you for being here and talking so candidly about breasts and all things about em. laughter okay, so you i know got breast implants very very young. I did. I got them. Why . Out of insecurity. I was 20 years old. I had had my first child at 18, and after breastfeeding for a year, as we know, they droop. So i thought, oh, ill just get em made bigger. And thats when breast implants really started to become popular. And i went big 34dd. So did you see a difference in the way men treated you . The way society treated you . Well, i got a lot of dates. Yeah. Yeah, definitely. And i think thats where i am right now, thats why i had them removed, because for so many years it was like, oh, hi and you couldnt get a shirt to fit you and definitely not a buttonup shirt. And it was always, no matter what i wore, i felt they were right there. It was like a blessing and a curse. In your 20s, it was fun. Im not gonna lie it was fun to have. chuckling . To be in the bikini and get the attention. It was exactly what i wanted, im sure, at the time. As i got older, they became a bother to me. They were heavy. And when you get breast implants, a lot of times you dont just have one surgery. You end up with three surgeries. What do you mean . Well, within time i had mine for 20 years. So complications is that true, doctor . Yeah. And it wasnt necessarily complications for me, cause i never had any complications, whatsoever. But i had four children. So in between that, after baby 2, i decided to have them done again. So got em done, and then they were too big, so then i went back and had a reduction done and a smaller implant put in. And you actually see that on season four. Ooh, child. And i know youre and youre gorgeous. I dont understand, ricki. Look at her, shes gorgeous. I dont get it. Thats sweet. And youve since had them removed. Your ex was a big fan of the implants and you feel like it was liberating to have them removed. Yes. I went through a really bad divorce and i really didnt feel like i knew who i was. I kind of lost my identity with my husband and i wanted to take my life back. And one of the things i was like, im getting rid of these and im getting rid of them now. It was a scary thing, because i had them for 20 years. And i didnt know what i was left with gonna be left with. Even right before i went in, i asked the doctor, so, should we put a little implant in . I got really scared and he said, no. No. Just stick to your plan. This is what you wanted. You want them gone. And it was the best thing i ever did in my life. Wow. Wow. What was that like when you went home . It was just so freeing to know that i didnt have these implants and i think the beauty about being in your 40s you dont really care. I mean, your bikini days are really kinda gone and i dont you dont care as much. Something tells me you can still rock a bikini. laughter but it was just i felt better, i looked better. My shoulders were always like this, and i still have a problem with pushing my shoulders back because i was so used to all this weight. Mmhmm. So it was just clothes fit me better on camera, especially, i felt i looked so heavy all the time. Then i got them out and it i just love em. I wish i wouldve done it i wish i wouldve known to just never get implants. I had enough of my own breast tissue that i couldve gotten a lift. Really . Okay. Yeah. Well, tell us about the new season of the real housewives of Orange County. Oh dear. Theres definitely a lot of drama. Theres always a lot of drama. Were gonna get married. We havent gotten married yet. And you see me like, well, when we getting married . When are we getting married . And we didnt get married on the show. Okay. So we did a lot of wedding preparation. Okay. On the show, but we dont actually get married. Were getting married this summer. Okay. But youre still engaged. Yes, were engaged but were opening up a business together, so we just opened up my Fitness Studio and it took so much time to that we didnt have time to plan a wedding, film a tv show and Everything Else we do. Okay. So this summer were getting married. All right, well, coming up next, our man panel weighs in and tells us why they become powerless in the presence of beautiful breasts. Its a conversation you dont want to miss. Stay tuned. applause cheers i dont think youre gonna find it in a harvard med book, but talking longer than 12 seconds to a lady, your eyes just immediately go down. Its like blinking. Like right now, i just saw your breasts twice. laughter even and im wearing a turtleneck. We have to make a conscious effort not to look down. Its so true. When a woman walks in the room with a big chest, a man will stare right at it. When a woman with large breasts walks into a room, i look at them. When a largebreasted woman walks in the room. I look. When a woman walks by with big boobs, i cant help but stare. Its really hard to look into their eyes when theres so much to distract you. I look straight at her face. I dont look at her breasts. laughs is your nose growing . Yes. cause my wife will probably be watching this. laughter the truth comes out. We have been talking about breasts with jackee, one of the stars of c. W. s the first famil