Then poof, it was gone. Any reason that you have me here on friday the 13th. I like you any friday na you will come in. And we brought your wine, because you like red. Yes, i am excited for the tryday friday. This is ellie goulding, and you have a lot going on and a lot of people are busy, but you have at lot going on. Where where were were you last night, andy . Washington, d. C. , promoting the andy cohen diaries, and what a Great Holiday gift. That book was on the bestselling list for a long time, and how long . I dont know, but the paper isback is now back on the list. And tonight . Tonight i am going to columbus, ohio, because Anderson Cooper and i are appearing tomorrow night in columbus, ohio, and you can get some good ticket, so check it out. It is a fun night. And by the way, what do you do . It is like hanging out with a bar with us. You dish in. It is twitterfree environment, and we say that you cant tweet what we say. It is a great night out. And we have performing for us today, have you heard of great big world . Ah, they are giving me the feels right now this song. Say something is a great song, and this is the one they sang with oh. Oh. With christina aguilera, and they sing like angels. They do. Look at who is in the kitchen. Oh, my god, it is Patricia Arquette, oscar winner. Look at her in the kitchen. What are you doing in there . Yes, a spatula and very good. Do you feel at home in the kitchen . I am here in the kitchen and part of the health department. Oh, no, dont shut us down. As you know she won the oscar for boyhood cool show, and we will talk about that yes. And if you are n in the mood to laugh, the funny Liza Schlesinger is here. She is hilarious, and she has a lot going on. Yes. Lets move on to the music, because we are kind of into it. Yes. Adele has a song that we know. Hello, hello. And people are somehow reaching back to the exes when they hear it. I love it. I m a romantic and i like to reach back. Everybody loves to dip back into the well thinking that maybe it is going to be better this time, and it never works out, but the promise, the promise is exciting. You go on the facebook and you start to stalking the ex, and you say, hey, they look kind of good. Now they look good in that shirt that i thought they looked horrible in. And you know, i met christie by the way, with whatever she has done, it is all settled and per perfect. You she said that guys shave and it exfoliates and that is why she says that women should exfoliate everyday with beads and and you know, in nj ew jersey Caroline Manzo shaves her face. Why . Well, i love about her that she has been in love a number of times. Yes. And she loves to fall in love, and she is not one of the bitter and hardened people. But on the other hand, it is like lesbians, because they fall in love immediately and move into into move in together. And gay men are not doing that. Oh, it is like a moment, and we are not bringing the suitcase. They did get in touch with the ex and 17 of the men said the same thing they dont like to reach back. You and i were in the dressing room and playing a song. The new Missy Elliott video came out, a it is so good. The song is wtf which stands for where they from. Is that what it stands for . Okay. Yes, it does. I love her. I love her. And meanwhile, she looks like a Million Dollar bill. Look at her, and the merionettes of pharrell. I love a pharrell merionette. And this s is the thing about Missy Elliott, to me she is the dolly parton of hiphop world. She is the most popular and well liked and accessible for every age. I love Missy Elliott. I want to buy a cup of it. And compared to dolly parton there. Yes sblchlt and there is a song that one of the jonas brothers, joe i think that he did this song cake by the ocean. So there is a video that i was like, well, this makes sense. Dance with me baby so, yes. Therell be cake pi the by the ocean that is what i thought it meant. What does it mean . It apparently means having sex by the ocean. Im down for that, well, no, i am not down for it. The sand et gets everywhere and the idea is fun, but the sand is the smutzik all over you, and i do not like it all over the ocean. And by the way, if you had actually cake by the ocean, you would have sand in the cake. Are familiar like cake by the ocean ocean and what about bagdrop. It is oh, i do now, that you want to put a bag over the persons head and screw around with them. Oh, somebody with an attractive body and not good looking face. Butterface. It is not my term, but it is kathie lees term. Buddy. I am in the market for a cuddle buddy, hoda. Well, there was another one. And it is tryday friday. And this is another thing to poison our children. It is Edible Cookie Dough as if we r are not killing our children. How is it . It could not be better. If you gave this to your kids in the lunchbox, it would be the worst parent in the world. 380 calories in one, andy. Do we have to mention that for nascar. This is huge. Yes. You are going to be the grand marshal for the nascar event. Yes, rev those engines and the minions aring to the to be there and they are going to be take over the ford thend. Not a lot of jews at nascar. What do you mean . So heres the helmet. This is hot. Wow. You are going to have to be working on that and we need to get hodes a bigger helmet. Yes, that is cute. All right. Anyway, i get to announce drivers start your engine. And jeff gordon is going to be there . He is . Yes. I lo him. And it is going to air right here on sunday november 22nd on the nbc network. That is big time. And andy, she has won every single award under the sun at hillshire farm, spice is the spice of life. Thats why our craftsmen season every sausage perfectly. So you can coax out great flavor effortlessly. Hillshire farm. 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He was addicted to experiencing the world over time, and over time the only time he felt safe was behind a computer screen. Wow. Hi, Patricia Arquette. Hello. Another hit. What is happening . You are a hitmaker. Oohment. Im like the idolmaker. Yes, the idolmaker of tv. What did you, did it feel right when you read the script . Yes, it did. Because this character is headbase and not emotionallybased. Cyber crime is very intense and scary, and like this jihadi john guy, and how they found him was the veins in his hand, because he was always covering the face. So they had photos of the veins in his hands which are like fingerprints, and they scanned them against the known jihadis on facebook and found a match, and then found the name. And have you as a result of being on the show backed up your computers and check your passwords. Yes, all of the verification, and no email on the phone, and i cover the computer thing. Your kids have to turn off the location devices on photograph, because there is is an invisible information and it says exactly where that location is taken. By the way, somebody showed us that on the show and we all looked in and it was on. Somewhere i tweeted somebody and they said, how is 84th street and somewhere and it freaks you out. Yes, really weird. Your daughter, sailor, and she comes with you harlow. I had Christie Brinkley yesterday and that is her daughter. Sometimes . Yes, she comes there to do her homework and hang out. And the last time i saw you, was with the oscar and you were winning at every award show, and it is awesome on the foregone conclusion that you are doing to they were saying your name, did you have a moment where you said, i have this or did you say, it is not going to be happening. Yes. I had a moment it would not happen, and then the second they said my name, it was literally like being infused with with an insane amount of drugs. Like the high or the low. Yes, and it is the weird adrenaline, and the time and space went really. I went backstage and i was like shaking, and i felt like i was going to vomit, and i said, i have to sit down, because aim going to to be passing out. Have you watched the speech . Yes. Were you happy with it . I dont know. I cant believe it happened and the whole weird thing. I never imagined it in my whole life. Has it changed your life . Well, mostly, because of what i have said, i have been asked to do a lot of speaking engagements and things like that, and so that is great, but there are so many great things, that i cant say yes to all of them, and so it has stressed me out. Well, we wish you good luck with this and not that you need it. Season two doing so well. And it came on as well. And make sure you watch. And the funny lady were only human. We. Get. Angry. Out of control, mad to the core, angry. So cancer, youve got two options. Get out of the way or get rolled over. 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Not as much, because people aruse coming to see the show, a nd they know what you are in for, an md now it is that a lot of people tape them that you dont want to and people dress up, and i feel like lady gaga and i am yet way underrated and they they yell out the bits. And is yours clean or a little bit of, you know what, in it . You dont know how terrified our producers are . I am on probation already. And it is not like the fword fword, but nothing worse than you will hear on the news. Bring your baby. And do you have a comedian that you idolize . Last night i met bil crystal crystal, and it is like there are old jews there, and i saw the door and i slipped in and i said, i can find the underbackstage and so i waddled under the catacomb of town hall what you are going to be saying to the celebrities. How did it go . Well, i dont know, not well, because i was shaking and crying, and im a comedian and can you come to my show. And he was like, you poor thing, and the only picture we got was r eyes closed and i met Billy Crystal, and so that is my moment. A is he your number o . Yes, the one i always wanted to be. And a female comedian that you want to be . Ellen. I was a Paula Poundstone and Kathy Griffin is amazing. She is appearing at the comedy palace. Yes, so nice. And so many great women out there doing i. I cant believe from the last comic standing to what your career has done. Finally somebody admits it. Get that, mom and do you take your dog blanch everywhere . Yes, except for tomorrow i am going to las vegas, and she cant go. And i had to take the goose poop right out of her beard. What . Geese in the rural area of th od and i where did that go . Okay. Outside of this city, there are bird s s that poop and dogs are lishgs my new best friend and they cover it and you have to comb it. Iliza. Im there for bessie. Im there for ray. Ted loved baseball. Dr. Phil likes to watch football. Renne, who wants sloppy joe on the menu every day. Rosies my best friend. Evelyn likes to dance. Harriett wants her fried shrimp as well. Alice anne likes Vanilla Ice Cream with chocolate syrup and rainbow sprinkles. They give me so much back. I cant even imagine how i could possibly give them what they give me. Smells like spaghetti with johnsonville italian sausage. My favorite. The johnsonville factory burned down brian. I may as well move out. Well, if thats what yo. Youre right. Ill stay. Delicious johnsonville italian sausage. Dave, im sorry to interrupt. I gotta take a sick day tomorrow. Dads dont take sick days, dads take nyquil severe the nighttime, sniffling, sneezing, coughing, aching, fever, best sleep with a cold, medicine. Making christmas wishes come true from wherever you are. And having dreams delivered to your door. For some of us, thats all in a days work. Shop the way you live. Love the way you shop. And experience more wonder every day. Live look at the jersey turnpike. 10 27 on friday, the 13th. A cole caps of a build facade near 4th avenue. No one was hurt a long island man accused of driving drunk arrested James Fitzpatrick with dwi. He hit 63yearold Robert Forney in islip high of 57 degrees. Tonight, partly cloudy, windy, chilly, 40 for the low. Tomorrow, sun. High of 49 degrees. Coming up on the today show, how to watch your figure during the holidays. Join us again for news 4 new york at noon. It is tryday friday and andy cohen is helping us out when kathie lee is helping us out. And e hoda, i may not be the best person to ask can, but you know who is . These two. And matthew is the founder of how to get the guy. Com, and francesca is the owner of made to measure. Com. And they are here for the other view. I we have questions for you. And all right. Now, to the gay. My husband is not a great sharer from the bathroom sinks to communicating his feelings. How can i make him a better sharer . How can gayle get her husband the share . I would say, firstly, the thing that gayle has to realize is that it says something about her as well as him. When you have the relationship and you dont have the standard that says, i expect you the share more, and that is when it changes, and you are still there the whole time, it does Say Something about you as well, but in terms of the husband, you have to make it a safe space for someone to share. If people feel like they are going be punish ed ed every time they share something, they never will. And the next time somebody shares, you may not like it, but listen and reward them for the sharing part, even if you are going to admonish them. What about sharing the sink . They are not super related. You have to teach people how you want to be treated and lead by example. I suspect that after 19 years of marriage, there is a lot of complaining about the sink, and everything else. That is not helpful. So, you have to be finding the happy medium between accepting that your huz sband is not food at sharing and showing him how to share, and model it. And it is selfish, and just being selfish. Okay. We walk over here. Walking and moving. Yes. And the next person . Lori from indiana. I have a 24yearold daughter, and i was wondering how do i encourage her to find a relationship and settle down . Oh. That is not going to go well . Well, obviously, as her mother, you influence and you could guilt and pressure your daughter into settling down, but why would you . The goal is that your daughter is happy and settles down when she is happy. And that is a strange thing to say i want her to do, this and she has her own goals, and she would do a better job by showing how amazing a relation relationship can be and if her mom could lead by example and her daugt hter says, this is fantastic and i dont want to miss out. I have two younger brothers and he said the way i got you have to be good is that i didnt give you anything to rebel against. As soon as she gives her daugt daughter something to rebell against, then that is when it happens. A lot of the mom s s, and she is only in the 20s, but moms with the kids in the 30s and the 40s and, please, i want my daugt hter to meet someone coming from a beautiful place. That is their stuf i want to meet one of the younger brothers. Okay. To the next question with michelle. I have been dating this gentleman for about a year.