We brighten things up with our conversation, how about that . To stay at home, not to stay at home. Thats the question. One mom being called foiled, for staying home with her children. How she is holding back. It is back, empire, yaz, sore eye a, on the 17 magazine. What the stars have to say about their rumored relationship, the hot actress thats appearing on the show. Trying to shop, get the best deals on gift, so lets go for the tech i in your live. The stuff is that they want to have and the best prices, the cool edge gadgets that you could put under the tree for this year. Feel like they always have everything, though. One every them, billion pictures on our phone, but how many pictures do we have . Oh, youre planning ahead. No more pictures any more. Cool gadget, just print them right on out. Oh, i like. How about snap it . Sign me up. Learn more about. That will here is the big question, starting to get reaction on social media. How much do you trust your partner . Like really trust your partner . Well, one woman, she sparked a fire storm on line after claiming that we are all capable of cheating, given the right circumstances. So her original post says that people are absolutely certain that other halves wont ever chute are dilute g themselves. People feel very strongly. Some agree, while never truely know anyone else, what they will do. Other insist their partners are 100 committed their relationship works never hurt them. Then some people saying well what do you call cheating . Because then there is that. The person cheating, flight. You have to clarify. Definition every cheating . Thats not cheating. Some people are saying though when it comes to cheating, you are doing something would you not do in front of your spouse, you shouldnt be doing it. Does flirting constitute cheating . No. If youre flirting with that in mine, thats one step toward it. What if they are flirting in front of you . Thats disrespectful. Say i was out with the boys, and i flirted with someone . Who would say that . I mean . Absolutely. You go out, get couple of numbers . Telling on yourself . No, i believe in a hundred honesty, i feel like living in this bubble, wacking down the street, and oh, she is attractive there is person is attractive. Would that bother you . No, that wouldnt bother glee a lot of people are like well what do you mean they are attractive. And i think that ruins relationship. When you dont have the open dialogue, when you can you know, say it together, i find this person or this interests me intrigues me, not to say you are going to do anything, but once you put little standards, start stifling a relationship, thats where noon some problems. Hole on. Im all for honesty. Dr. Dre ton. If you went out, flirting with someone, oh, little fun, you come home say okay, i was flirting with someone. What do you expect to happen next . Oh, thats great, have a great day. You know, i was out, got couple of numbers, nothing. Are you in a committed relationship saying this . Well yes, if you are a committed relationship getting numbers from someone you think is good looking. You dont think i should say anything . Why are you doing it . If you are in a committed relationship. Im just saying if youre out. Oh, see now . I believe 100 honesty in a relationship. I think a loft people are very capable of shooting when they say well now i know what my mom or my manor woman is doing, all it takes is five minutes. And alcohol. Five minute, thats kind of quick. Absolutely, you know, you have a couple of drinks. Too much alcohol. I have been shock in my life. My best friend, people i have known, weve spent talk in a billion years, deep secrets that they held. And i had no idea. Im always amazed. So this woman was specific in calling out men. I think most men given the chance certainly step out. I think a lot more common than people think. And i am shock by the people. I hear it from a lot of people they get bored in their relationship. Well, harder to stay in it and not do it. It is easy, all of these avenues, key can go on line, not like back in the day, go to the grocery store, see a person, instant connection. Now it is on line, pick up an app, you know, you can cheat just like that. I mean got to be hard. Karen you can speak to there is since married and everything, what i think about i know i am the single girl but there has to be with someone, and keep them entertained, keep it exciting for the rest of your live. One person for the rest of your life. And it has to be a big job to make sure theyre taken care of. I mean, you get older. You change. Things you want to change. I know some women who wont allow their men to see them without make up. I have heard of that. Always wash tonight, and some guys prefer them. You got kids and a life. I feel like you cant thats later in life. Date all the people. Put your best face forward. You need the person to be with you when you are sick, when you cry, hole your hands, because everybody can be there when it is good. Everybody wants when you it is good. I want if you read some of the comment that you are getting what people think about this. How do you keep it fresh . I know everyone different in their relationship. Do you designate date night . Do you go, you know, because when youre out on date we see a lot of this. People big problem ma relationship. Thats subbing, flight. Real quickly though, linda says my husband is very catholic, follows the maam the to the t. He looks for sure, but thats it, no touching. Thats where the line is. Then. All men are cheaters until one man treats them like a queen. I thought that until i found my husband. Another ridiculous, both women and men cheat. You know what some people say. Men and women cheat. Women are better at that time. What . Men dont Pay Attention to the details. Women are detail oriented know what kind of things to say and do. Love to hear what you say about this. A lot of people on their phone, it is called suck, basically when you just cant put down the phone. Oh,. Well, were socially active. Is that what you are calling it . Uhhuh. But it drives you insane when you see couple. I see, i mean, they dont even have a conversation sitting at the same table. Go out, no phone policy . We do. My husband looking at sports, looking at the game, wants to know what the buddies saying, whats going happen. I know we do it all the time. You dont mind . I do mind. Honey . Do you ever say honey can i just have your attention right now . No, i forget what i was trying to say, literally the paper, this thing, im trying to tell you something important. Can you just look up. So it does bother you . Of course it does. If your husband is watching you, put down the phone, would that bother you on a date . I remember when i was in high school. Guy did it for long time. We had a thing we would not look at phones. Even kind of carried over, even like dating recently. It is like youre looking at your phone, it makes oh, something going on . Hey, oh, something . Whats going on over there . What about when they do this, typing and then they put their phone face down . Oh. They dont want you to see how about this . He has the phone, and you kind just moving next to him and hes like oh, hold on, what you doing, when you cant show me whats going on . Does it make you suspect something could be going on . Please weighing it, if they are texting and face down they dont want that message. Or have it covered to the side . Secret, private. Does that affect snug. You know, of the privacy screens now, your phone looks completely black from anyone looking from this side or this side. So could you just go all day, not be worried about it, and they still cant read t but when it comes it like checking this, i remember this guy used to have this saying, and and you would look at your phone, phone check, okay, lets tack couple every minutes, make sure were not missing anything crazy and then get back to on the date that kind of thing. So maybe once a month exchange phones with your partner you can look at my phone . No, no, no, listen, go looking for something, you are going to find something. And i feel like as a former phone checker, i dont did it any more, former phone checker, i always there is always something you dont want to see. Good political estimate sometimes it really is like an innocent thing or whatever. And nothing more to t but you can find something and read more into it. I think thats smart. All right. I want to talk about there is stay at home moms . Yes. One blogger taking offense after someone called her spoiled, yes, call her spoil. Wrote up her entire experience on the site babble. She said someone once called they are spoil for staying home with her one child. In the post she wrote i was angry but also hurt. As a young 23 year old mom, i was so insecure in my new role in life. Most women discovering their police in this world, finding their passions and partying late into the night. Marrying young and becoming a mother had been my choice, but it was one i was still acclimate g to. I was happy to be home with my son. What i wanted. But it doesnt mean it came easily or without sacrifice. Goes on to say, long story, you know, most difficult decision you can make as a parent. Specially as a mom. So it often changes ive worked, and not work. Ive seen different sides. We have to be less judge mental. Guy saying this you are spoiled, he has a wife with four kids, like staying home with one kid . That was his frame of reference. So i think important, unless you walked in someone elses shoes, you dont know whats going on with them. You dont know whats happening with them. Us a just live with what we are are dealing with and not judge. Did you face that edge though . With your first child, question whether or not you would stay home . Not with my first. Stay at home with my second kid, for two years, i did on the work. I didnt work. I stoneboat sides, been that way, then it can be hard to be at home. A loft work. Both ways, a lot of work. Work. And some people cant afford it, both par event to work in order to keep things going. But we check in with meredith, producer of the q. You are a stay at home mom for awhile. Now you are back at work. What do you think, calling a home mom spoiled . I would deaf any not call a stay at home mom spoiled f anything i was always jealous when i work. I did the opposite. Instead of staying home when my kids were babies, when most stay at home moms stay at home, i stayed at home when my kids were five and seven. Thats when i left work. So i would consider myself spoiled at that moment because my kids were in school and i had six hours basically to myself. To run all of my err ants by myself, to clean, to prepare their meals, to go shopping, you know, to do all of those things that normally you would have kids with you, that make things ten times harder. I mean, not to say that, you know, any stay at home mom job is not easy. But i dont think that it is definitely not spoiled. I mean, one kid is hard. How much did you involve your partner, your spouse . In your decision . When staying home . He was very supportive of staying home. Just made life easier for us, because he worked crazy hours, and so did i. I work on good day. So i had to be here in the middle of the night. Towed work long hours. So it is just easier having one person, you know, to be able to take the kids to school, not having to worry about who will pick them up. Thats hard for working parents. Who will pick me kids up watcher if one is sick. Who is staying home with them. Meredith when you lefty was so jealous. I know. Like i cant believe you are doing this. Im so proud of you. I know. What made you come back . The q. Yes . They called me back to come to the q. And all of those expense every jewels that youre wearing . My Costume Jewelry . Love it. And we love you on the q. Oh, thank you. Do you watch at noon . Of course i will be watching. Monday through friday. Thanks for sharing, meredith. Thank you. Hey guess what else is back . Empire is back tonight. Took a break over the thanksgiving week. Now it is back. And yes, just celebrated birthday by the way. And theyre featured in the latest issue of 17. Dont they look good . Are they dating . They confirmed in this article they are not dating. Even on the show they had something little going on. Nope, just friends, really good friends. And when she needs inspiration, she said she thinks of her role model. Michael jordan, kobe bryant, beyonce, when working out in the gym or working at, first once, you know, when you want something, do you have put that work in. Lets go back to those two. I have never seen empire, i know. Oh,. I am usually working or doing something else, like sleeping. We love empire. We will be watching tonight. You be tweet withing alex. They have good on screen chemistry . Oh, yes, empire wrap, talk about the hot moments. You are missing out. Wrap it up in 30 seconds, if you had to. What, empire . The whole show. Thirty . I know we have lures, he is the head of empire. And the lion empire . And music empire, yes, topping, she went to jail for him for little bit to cover up some stuff. She came back. Foul out of jail and back. Now there are so many things that happen. They try to keep the dynasty going. Also three sons. One was shot. Yes. One music career. He came back . Only because ive been watching you. Yes . Youve been keeping me in the know. So weve learned mariah carey, guest . Well, guests, coming in for guest spot, me a long, yes. So she is starring also in the tv version of beaches in january. Remaking it . Oh, that will be amazing. Dont ask me how i know, but back in january, lifetime remake of beaches. My mother loves this. Every week. And come watch. And i would be like there is only one movie in my life that made me cry. Beaches is sad. Do you want to know what it is . I cant watch it in school. Charlottes web. Oh. That darn spider dies, oh, my gosh. Spoiler alert. If you dont know by now. Wait. Out of all of the movies out, there all the movies . I think my parents died at dumbo. Bamm bye . Thats one. Sue,. Im not your average bear. Sue . Think of a move that i made you cry, i know you will give us answer in 15 seconds. Well try to guess over the next 15. Charlottes web. National weather is advice says the conditions conducive to fog, timing throughout the rest of the morning, look at the viabilities, there isnt much, quarter mile in wilmington, millville, atlantic city, half mile at the airport, so your flight may be delayed, this cold front, touching off strong thunderstorms, more moving in to alabama. It is very slow moving front. So we will have rain from this. With us for the rest of the day. Weve been checking around, gatlinberg, tennessee, knoxville, very heavy rain there. That might be good thing. Thats where theyve been having the wild fires. 65 degrees. Watch out for thunderstorms any time today. Things dry out tomorrow. And by friday, back to seasonable chilly temperatures. It is the first weekend of december, coming up. And by sunday it is really going to feel like december. Sue, if it is going to be december i guess it has to feel like t the shopping season underway. If your a tight on time, have a long list, consumer reporter steve noviello, telling us about cool tech gift, steve, help us. Good morning, we have my annual gift guide air on your station last week. And now breaking down some of the cool gift ideas. When we talk about technology, it is the cat gore that i people ask us about most. What we try and do is find stuff that is just a little bit off the beaten path for you. We do have few staples, like this guy right here. The vizioe cast series television, 4k, ultra hd display. The reason we chose it really all about price point. Sixtyfiveintel vision, 4k display, for only 850 bucks. Cool thing about this is you can download the vizio smart app to turn it into touch screen remote, then cast content from your phone, to the screen. A thousand apps, hundreds of thousands of shows, movies, millions of songs, or you can of course watch cable satellite or over the air tv. If you would like to update the sound of your system but dont want to have to update all of your technology, we chose the fresh e bar. This is 70dollar price point. But what makes it so cool, is the connective at this. Take a look at the back here. Talking blue tooth, rca connections, digital optical, even head phone jack will work with this which means any television manufactured since 1999 is compatible with this system. Also, has kind of really cool and fun look, with this leather trim, and different fashion colors. And again it is 07 bucks. Even if something were to happen to it, not the worse thing in the world. Lets move over to here, the sprocket from hp. Zero inning photo printer. Scnc printout photos from instagram, even camera on your phone, the app allows you to edit your photos, add captions, frames, these two by 3inch printout also are stickers, as well. So kind of cool thing for the kids there. About 130 price point. Next up, talk about this. This is the lamp champ. One of the first things we chose for our tech section this year. Because it really is so useful. Picture. This youre on the road. In a hotel. Looking for that usb charging cable. It is just not somewhere close. So, you pop this in where the light bulb goes. Then the light bulb goes in on top t becomes an usb charging station. The need thing about this, is that even when the light is turned off, this will continue to charge your usb powered devices, comes in a 20 price point. Finally for you i know in my house all sorts of old cables laying around, because heres what happens. I buy them, i plug them in. Then point of contact they start to bend, start to fray. They start to break. They start, they stop working. This is called snakeable. Here is how they solved that problem. Their cables are manufactured with independently moving ball joints. So what happens is that this restricts any sort of harsh bends in the wire, which means, no hash, bends, no stress, no stress, no fraying, no worries about having to replace it. These, about 23. Obviously thats just the tip of the iceberg from what we are showing you on the table. Complete tech section, more than 30 items, more than 170 in our full guide. Find link not only my Facebook Fan Page but of course your station website. I have to check it out. Steve next we will be seeing you, will you be looking different . This is the last day of no shave november. Follow me on social media. We have, thank you so much. Have surpassed our fundraising goal for this year. So we had great time raising money and raising awareness for the cause. Yes, maam, the last day of the beard. Im thinking next year when it comes in, it will be even grayer. Oh, sign every wisdom. Thats for taking part in the calls. See the headphones there . People asking facebook and twitter where i got this mug, not sephora mug. It does look like a sephora mug. They like t they want to get it. Where did you get it . Home goods. We were debating earlier in the show, oh, rudolph . No it is not rudolph. I was like hello, the red nose . Cousin of rudolph . No. Smekle. Youre probably right. Commercial break . We get down to business, like what kind of reindeer is that . Ill get awe snowman, and i think there is a Christmas Tree one. And i may give one away to one of the viewers. Oh, look at you, holiday give away. Bought them last year for stocking stuffer. Just call this these are leftovers, not re gift. Re gifts . Kind of re gift. You know what . Ill get awe calendar. Okay, bearing it all, how the calendar is h