Cousins . Because i grew up in wichita, kansas, you think thats back water . You think thats hill billy . Inch. Zest. All right. I didnt have sex with my sisters. Well, there is that one time. No. No, it is like kissing your sister. It is not ex soothing. Im just going to sit here. I like to be neutral. You know i did have a crush on my cousin, though. Margaret ann. I was in love with margaret ann. She was my first cousin. How did that happen until. She really cute. I think thats common. Because we had some crushes, my kids, you know, some crushes on their cousins, did i at a certain age. What do you tell them, you i do. That. Thats the only person in the world you cant march. I i really wanted to kiss her but i coin, on christmas we go out to their house, they lived out on a farm. Shocking. It is kansas. And i would get really nervous when i saw her. You should have admitted to the fact she was a girl and , no she was really cute. No, it was margaret ann. Then i got to spends the summer throughout with my two sisters and margaret ann. And we would ride sugar, the horse, with no saddle. We would ride it bear back together. Was robert ann your first kiss . We never kissed. Okay. So you werent cussing cousins, you just like your cousin . No, i would have kissed her, but she would have run screaming from the farm. Margaret ann. Is she happily married now . She is dead. Oh. Thats a great story. Mike, awesome. She march aid do you have us, though. Yes. Everyone is a do you have us when theyre not you, is that what you are thinking . Pretty much. No, he was a do you have us. Dufus. I remember oh, stop. Go ahead. Now, a woman that ive met couple welshing we cohost add show together. She married salmon rushdi, remember that name . Yes. Then big time on the food network, all of that, she is a chef, food critic, she has seven year old caught their you see right there. She her daughter started to talk like her, about her daughter wanted to control her weight at seven. Well explain. And talk about job benefits. So it is a babysitting gig, but this isnt your typical babysitting gig. It also some unusual and luxurious perks. So to the point where i want to quit and do this right now. It is a six figure nanny job that comes with a maserati. Six figures to be a nanny . And you get to drive that car . Yep. I dont even think it is enough money for this job, and well explain. I dont think theyre paying enough. Donald trump . No, no i have no idea who it is, but there are some details. Really rich people. All right. This is a new trends that car len tell you about at a wedding reception. Ive seen people do this. Having people register the couples for the honeymoon. They say well go away, help us celebrate. Do you think thats tacky or do you think that is something that should, you know, people should do sniff seen it, my brother did it, i think it is common nowadays. Last wedding we went to remember big controversy, we showed up with a gift and we were like the only people. They didnt have a gift table. Where do we put this. People are like you brought a gift . Youre not supposed to bring the physical gift because then after the reception, somebodys got to put it in the trunk of the car, and take it all back. But they had a place foreign develop opens. Envelopes you can do that, it would be easy to take back to the house. But you what do do, get them a physical gift, sends it to the home so they dont have to deal with is it. People still bring gifts, you can do it, they wont say dont give me. Well, they took our gift. Yes. So money, so if you think about it, has to be expensive, especially going all out, the air far irks guess the fancy honeymoon suite. If you really are feeling nice, some limo services, nice meal. Maybe like if youre out on the beach, maybe like a meal on the beach, you snow. They do. That will you can register for like maybe like a massage or specifically. Couples massage. I dont see anything wrong with there is there are couple every websites that ive seen, there is one honey fund. Com. And travelers joy. Com. However, the new trends is getting slam for being tacky and greedy by some people. So lets discuss this. Prefer to get them cutlery . I think i would rather give them money for beautiful vacation than a toast error towels. Well, a tears lasts longer. True. So there is that. What do you remember more . When the toast pops up, do you think of mike . Or when youre in bore a bore a do you think of mike . And i like to make it all about me. So then come back home dealing with the daytoday, getting back to regular life, were not thinking about borabora. How often do you back and think oh, my honeymoon. Where did you go . Barabora. You went there . We think thats an imagine dall thing, you know, i think that would be kind of lovely. How long have you been married . Weve been married for 11 years. And together, yes. Over the past 11 years, every day do you think oh, when we had our honeymoon. I dont contemplate the toaster east. But we look back, it was the most amazing vacation we ever had. And i think also, i dont think this is tacky, not like youre asking people to pay for your wedding or to buy your dress, youre asking them, and sometimes you have a theme usually when do you a shower like around the clock, you give gifts depending on hour of the day or a kitchen shower, so this could be honeymoon shower, like could you have it at a place, thats the theme, is having like sends of this off on their wonderful honeymoon, a theme. You all dress up in swimsuits oring . Teak i bar, cocktails. Ya, really. Ive always wanted to go to borabora. Did you have one of those huts, over turquoise water . Everything thats built there is out over the water. Not really a law, but every single thing, every person on the entire island is on their honeymoon. Every single woman has like the ring, the nails. You bring the ring on the honeymoon . I would be scared i would lose it. Yes, you go the next day. Well, some people they travel, they put on Something Different because you dont want to lose it. So what do you hear a lot of huh, huh. Oh, mike. You have private area of the everyone gets huge private area. If this hut is a rocking, dont comma knocking. People are weighing in. One says toast r over trip i would rather put my money where the couple prefers. And it saves on wrapping paper. Very good. Linda says once i paid for two days of car rental in maui not sexy but useful. Somebody bought them a car rental . Yes. But it was useful. They didnt have i to think about it, it makes sense. True. I registered also at the home depo. And i got like garden host that we needed, like so sometimes you need things also fun, too. And you remember every person that gave you an actual gift. Oh, stop it. What . You their stuff . You wrote the thank you notes later. So i know every person that gave me every gift. So if soandso calls, i need to you do me a favor. She got me a toast err, im not doing that. Or she didnt get me something off my registry . , no you appreciate it, you love the object more. Oh, soandso got this for me. Someone got me luggage. You dont have any situations where a person in your life and what they gave you at your wedding was not you what felt like, you deserved . You know what i mean, someone close to you, thats all they got me, and weve been friends for how long . You never through the. Ive got that. Yes. Get the same thing. A waterford clock, so that when they looked at the time as they leave for work or whatever they might think of me. Again it is about me. About you. But someone was unhappy with it . They said well dont you always give that gift to every wedding . Oh, thats trowel. So they know. Oh, it is a clock, it is from mike. But the idea was every time they look at the clock they might think of me. Oh,. You can say i always have time for you. They wanted to be special. Yes. For your wonderful time together, whatever. Caroline says, disney lets you help pay for a begged. You can register gift for wedding at disney, and it lets you help pay for a wedding. If somebody would suggest that i go to disney world for my honeymoon . A lot of people. Divorce. Stop. They have their weddings at disney. People do that. Really . Yes. Weve seen fabulous education. Mickey holds a ring or something . Didnt mariah carey do, come and past, gone, didnt dot renew vow. In. Kim kardashian, closed down disney lands . I dont think for their wedding. I dont think kim got married. Not for the wedding. Maybe it was for going with the kids birthdays . Probably just regular day in their lives. Like norths birthday or something. Yes. You got a garden host . I got a garden host, air conditioner. Air conditioner as a wedding gift . Those can be expense. Ive needed. I am a host . I needed those. Youre right, i would Say Something like the wine glasses we use all the time, dow use those more, and then nicer things, so dow remember, in hindsight, better selection. How often do you buy the china, when people give you the wedding china. Once you get it, you make a commitment youre going to use it all the time. I just slapped that stuff out all the time. Really . Two people over. Putting the china down, oh, ya. Boy wants Peanut Butter and jelly sandwich, china. You sound like president trump. China. What do you think of red china . I think it clashes. Yesterday, you got no reaction. All right. So you got hosed on the honeymoon. All right. He just loves the hose. Im going to throw my mel bee on you. Okay, patmal, gorgeous woman, her obsession over her own weight, always talking about trying to lose weight, negative effect on her daughter. Explain this. So there is a newest a. She wrote this. She says that she put her weight watching ways behind her after she heard her seven year old daughter, say i weigh too much. Oh, god. She said she was shake when she heard her daughter said i dont want to eat because i am watching my figure. People say a lot of time. So she says language matters there is just shows we need to watch what were saying around our daughters, and the kind of signals were sending because they do what mommy does. Well thanks padmal for telling us something obvious. I think obvious, but we dont think about it in the moment. Maybe what were doing or thinking, so talking and we oh, you know, a kid might hear that. Like karen told us the other day she cusses all the tile around the house and the boys are now starting to cuss. True. It does happen. Children model your behavior. But you dont realize, sometimes with women always trying to be self deprive dating. Constantly talk that way girls learn that pat then is what makes meme like me, always trying to, you know, be in a approachable person or something, thats not the way to be liked. Weird thing. Kind of like girl language, ill feel like girly love my figure. Thats kind of how you try to bond with someone, oh, you know, i need it watch my figure. Girl, im not where i need to be either. I need to work out. Oh, ya, we have that in common f were you to say oh, im not eat that im watching my figure. Well, and then the other is mines fine, im eating. So steamy feel like people feel obligate today Say Something negative about themselves, too, to make the other person feel okay with it, create that kind of space. True. I used to do that negative response from people give me compliment. Yes. Then my mother told me, mike, just say thank you. And shut up. Just say thank you, and move on. That doesnt always work. At least for women. Ive seen this on twitter, like this thing went viral. This woman said she was like on continue err. And guys would message her, girl, you know you look fine, she is like thank you. Theyre like never mind, youre not that cute. It is crazy, she has all of these members axe, every time she said thank you, thanks, i know, and theyre no, youre not that hot. Relax. Every time. That was her reaction. So i feel like sometimes you cant say thank you. So what did the guys want them to say . Oh, me . Yes. Really . This old thing . Apparently, i mean, fascinating, also look it up. But like message after message. I want you to be confident or something. Ridiculous, tinder creep. I it is awkward i guess if you say hey mike you look really good. Oh, no youre not. Thanks is okay, but the difference is thanks i know. But i will always go no, im bloated, i hate myself. You immediately, your go to. Stop saying that, it is really negative, stupid. Lets see if i can finds it. You know, im really starting to get to this point in my life where i have really something brilliant to say and i forgot. Maybe it wasnt that brilliant. Maybe your brain is editing for you . Or maybe for being mean to me. Really . Are you looking for a job . I think i got one for you. It is six figures. It pays 130,000 a year. Now, you have to be a nanny. I i can become a nan. I imagine keith as your nanny. Here is a requirement. You have to have a degree in child psychology. With a minimum of 15 years experience, the nanny must be willing to work six days a week, 13 hours a day, and there are four kids. But you can fly with the families on vacations, four homes that you have to take care of london, bar bay owes, capetown, atlanta, george a personal chef. You will be able to eat the personal chefs food. You will have access to porche, range rover, and maserati. The family has gotten more than 300 applicant of course, they say most are not qualified. Only small amount have met the specific requirement. Now the degree in 15 years of experience is going to cut out a lot of people. Im out. But who is it for . I toll you my nanny hired, uma they are man, after us, they go through agent cyst. You told thus . I dont remember this. Uma thurman has your nanny . When you go through the screening process, you dont hoe who it is until it happens. Yes. So a lot better than me, paying. But i feel like you dont want this job for the hassle, people like that are impossible to please. And there is always going to be problems, there used to be the joke, the nanny diaries written by yes. And speak french, do all of these crazy things, like it is Unrealistic Expectations so they present it oh, you get to live our glamorous life, one of those things so expense i have to live in all of the cities anyway, that and youre working 13 hour days with four kids. Sounds painful to me. I think it is not. London, barbados . It might be great for a year or two, and then there is burn out, where there would be, you snow. But somebody had 15 years experience, like in your fours, right . Well, they want someone more mature, they can handle that many kids. Have patience. And college degree. You dont want cute little hot nanny. Oh, really . Im sure she doesnt. Weve talked about this before. Even karen agrees, you cant have a hot nanny. And the best way it say, that oh, isolette at least 15 years experience. My daughters nancy really good looking. Yes . Uhhuh. I just dont think it is wise. You just dont want that in your house. Not a good decision, im so glad were past that college care, kids are school age. Did you dot hiring of your nannies. Of course. Like as the mom, well, depends on everyones house but i do everything, all of the doctors appointment, all of the scheduling, the sports. Adrianna lima, like a swimsuit model came in and applied, was very qualified, would you say no . She would never come n you look at the pictures first. Oh,. Karen, would eliminate her rounds one. Pictures. Thats great. Thats great. But my point is um, a well, we think the same way about that. Have you talk to uma . You have my nanny . When my daughters were really small we did hire someone to come in. She was an opear from sweden. Oh,. Her name was silka. Yes. You seem to be reminiscing about silka. No. I kept my space. She lived in our home. When they zoom in. No, nothing. But my it is like minute oak yo nose grows, this is how it goes. I still have my cough. Not once . No. Never even tried, hey . No, but i will say this. I had a baseball jacket from the yankees that the yankees had given me, she really likes it. And i gave it to her. And my wife at the time was upset. Oh,. Why did you give her that jacket . I liked that jacket. So there is some jelousy there. But there was nothing going on. But my friends, ken, my friend, ken, who came over, he was my friends. Yes . A cameraman. And he ended up, uhhuh. Oh, so thats why, because she went to someone else. No. No. No. I never would have done that. By the way, i found the woman, actually from philly. Feminista jones, the one who responds today men with the compliment minutes, thank you, if you want to make a man mad today, tell him you a grew with his compliment. Shes from philly. Have him come in. Hey, karen, you look fantastic today. Thanks, mike. Okay, there is that. Alex, whoa, you look like a snack. It sound weird when you say t youre looking like a snack. Youre looking like a snack. Now, say by the way, instagram yesterday, people loved that. Yep, you looking like a snack . They loved it. What would you say . Youre looking like a snack. Thanks, mike. So oh, mike, here go. No, if you said, ya, i know, look at all this. Guys would be mad at you . Well, it is stuff lick this guy would say i love your hair. She goes thank you, dow too. He says careful there girl, dont let me like it less. Whoa. So flipping through, some of them, my gosh, hey, nice bod. I she is goes oh, i know, right. I didnt know you knew. Sore bye that. How would i not know. I look at it every day. Actually you dont have a good body. You need to hit the gym more. Maybe we should have her in and talk to her about it. Youre looking like a tastykake. My gosh. Tastykake. Thats the philly version. Quincy harris has lost his mind. Hes training for a triathelon. Youre very inspiring. No, not going to put something in that. I want the reps to catch up. Okay. Terrence, just doing little weight training. Yes. Weve swam today. We ran. Now were going to attack the bike. When we come back. Lets take our shirts off. Common. I toll you it wouldnt be the last time. Join our partners tomorrow, checking School Supplies for student, bring five new School Supplies to clementon dark and splash world tomorrow between eight a. M. And 1 00 p. M. , and receive admission for just 10 by donating plus, bob kelly will be there during the show tomorrow. So come up and meet him, and get on tv. Why not . Come down, i guess. Lets go back it ambler, Quincy Harris has agreed do a triathelon, hes training, now doing some weight training. Hes working on his core. Okay, so, were at the ambler y. Terrence, why, why are we doing this . Why are we rowing . Is this going to help us . Rowing is a full body work out t works the whole full body. So i have him doing this just to warm up. To get him ready for the bike. Okay. And hes doing it at a good pace. You burn a lot of calories doing there . A lot of calories. My gosh. And this will help me out with swimming, swimming. Women g running and bike. Give you all three. Im tempting to complete a triathelon, and what happens you do 800meter swim. I dont know if you saw my swimming earlier. It was amazing. Then you go to a 26mile bike ride. And then a 3. 1 run. So now we are doing the biking. Where should my gears be . Well, your gears, you start down low, the lowest, so you can work on your speed. Okay. So we want to work on your speed. We can do all of this at the y . You can be indoor. You can go outdo