This story was published in the Grand Forks Herald's 2020 Wedding Guide. Written By: Pamela D. Knudson | 7:00 am, Dec. 14, 2020 × Amber Olsen, who provides services as "Officiant Amber," performs the wedding ceremony of Rachel Nerison and Lucas Potter. (Submitted photo) When she meets with engaged couples who want to plan a wedding at the Alerus Center, Shelby Looker wants to know: “How are we going to make this day about you guys?” “I think it’s really important to have couples show their personalities or their hobbies,” whether that's part of the ceremony, at the reception, or with the food choices they make, said Looker, conference sales and marketing manager for the Alerus.