>> drew: you know, slow, you don't realize you are getting into it. i think you will appreciate this. the colleague of the american mind and the american child, all leads to narcissism. we have had narcissism 30, 40 years. when i worked at psychiatric hospital come all kinds of personalities and diagnostic spectrums. the mid-90s, cluster b, 100% of the time. so narcissistic, borderline and if you are a parent, your child is an extension of you and you cannot stand to see them uncomfortable. you have to see them from every discomfort, what their achievements are your achievements and you have t...