To get me to do it with her. now, at some point, did you have conversations with family and friends there at the wedding? absolutely. again, when you walked out and you left, can you tell the jury why you left your son s wedding? well, we left early. i apologized for leaving early but i had warned them ahead of time that we were going to have to take off about 7:00, because charlie was in the room by himself in a crate and he was going to need a potty break. how far away was the wedding from the hotel that you were at that was pet friendly, drive time? roughly, a half hour, 30-40 minutes. again, there was some discussion earlier about you had lived in jacksonville how many years ago? 1995. so what s that? almost 15 years. is that right? are you familiar? did you memorize jacksonville? ....