Lengthened sentence, he realizes his actions carry even greater consequences. my son s 3 years old, his name s damian. if i could do anything for him right now, it would be be with him. i d want to be with him. you know? for him to know that his dad loves him and is there. and he is loved. he s got his mom. but nobody takes the place of a dad. my decisions affect him. he doesn t deserve for his dad to be here right now. stupid fight affects a 3-year-old and that was my choice. and that s what makes me mad. ....