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>> it's a match! >> like many of their generation, paulita and lien far looking online for their dates. >> i'm trying to have the smallest amounts of words exchanged. >> people are having sexual intercourse with their dates. >> hi, how are you? i can be there in 15 minutes. >> the guests are completely astonished. >> we call it having sex, we're wasting our time. this is meaningless blah, blah. i'm not really interested in your job or in your future expectations or in being the mother of your children. >> but this will be a tinder date with a twist. >> so my idea was to cut a hole here somewhe...

You have one son. what did you tell him about love, about marriage, about courting and getting a wife? it was her duty to find him a woman, and she did? >> she did. >> dear lena. >> exactly. >> what expectations did you have? >> what this. >> first off you have to take care of the parents of the men, then your husband. >> what about herself, her own happiness? were you ever told you also have a right to be happy, to be loved? >> this is not in our culture till now, no. i can't explain you. when you're married in afghanistan, you don't marry the guy, you've married all the family. you have to w...

Personal woman question. here you are in one room, in a camp, and you have to have husband-wife relations, you're pregnant. how difficult is it to do that here with everybody in the same room? what? >> it's a good question. i don't know if you get answer. >> ask her. >> so in this room, you got pregnant? >> do you mind me asking you these questions? >> in lena and laila's culture, sex and love are extremely private matters and even talking about them openly is taboo.

>> yes. >> good luck, be safe. >> i will. >> as lena headed off on her way to one of her five hookups that night, i couldn't help feeling the generation gulf. >> couldn't have been easier. come here, kiss me. time is running. we have like 90 minutes. so we're going to rock it. >> i can see that these young women are fully in control of their sexuality. and they treat sex more like many men would. as someone disinclined to record my own sexual pastimes -- >> oh my god, that was so funny. >> i have to wonder what sex is like for the rest of this city. are other berliners having this much action?...

Because i have a different experience. and i'm very happy. because every human has the right to enjoy the real sex. they told me, no, we don't understand what you're talking about, we don't have this kind of experience. >> you mean pleasure? >> yeah, pleasure. i don't want to tell them, oh, you missed something. but -- yeah. >> this was a school that's been turned into a refugee camp in the heart of berlin. and for now it's home for lena and her husband hanif, their two children, and her in-laws. i've reported on people fleeing war and crises throughout my career, and i've always wanted to ask...