And their children. but when she met a divorce lawyer, she was in for a shock. olivia was told she'd have to legally blame her husband if she wanted to get on with it quickly. i felt very uncomfortable with it right from the beginning because they seemed to be very much sort of pointing the finger and that someone was at fault. it felt that it was not going to be useful to the divorce process. especially when young children are involved i think apportioning blame sort of fuels the flame a little, and it didn't seem like a great way to set up co—parenting in the future. hi, olivia, it's nice ...