open separate they can reach out for help. so you re a human behavior expert, you re a therapist. but therapists need therapists, you need to bounce something off other people, correct. of course. i tell my exercise girls you go do exercise, she has her own pill latties girl. whether you go to your church and talk to you pastor we all need to contact and talk. there is a statistic that is really quite startling suicidings now kill more americans than car accidents. that is huge. i find it surprising. do you? absolutely surprising and shocking to think. we always think car accidents are the big danger here in america and now to think killing ourself rs of our own devices. i have to say that i think one of our problems in the country is the definition of happiness. we have way too much focus on