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Lately. i can t wear dresses because people are going to think i m a girl. part internet diary, part confessional. i had a feeling there was aspects of me that were not femme min, not masculine. it was a journey of self-discovery, and in a video viewed almost a million times, she emerged with a new name and a new identity. i identify as a-gender. i use they/them pronouns. i have no gender. i am genderless. in fact, not everyone has a gender. so she became chandler and declared that they are a gender, which means that chandler does not subscribe to being male or female. what s it mean to be a-gender? are you born without a gender or something you decide along the way? ....
An identification, too. in some ways that s a liberating choice. with the new-found confidence, steve is pushing himself to take new risks. when you re out, steve, and driving around, do you notice people staring at you when you re dressed femme? i can see people grappling trying to make sense of what they re saying. we re on our way to a local coffee shop, and steve is presenting femme, something he s almost never done outside his home. heart s been racing a lot the last couple days, huh? yeah, can you hear it on the microphone? i can see steve s nervous, but i can see something else, too. excitement. hello. what would you like? i d like a cranberry scone and a cup of hot black tea. ....