—Cheaters You say “we” when referring to your friend group and “I” when asking about cutting those friends off. Since you refer to them as “other couples,” I wonder what your partner’s reaction has been. You are entitled to your own reaction, regardless of what your partner thinks, but it may prove tricky if you want to cut ties and your partner wants to ignore it, so you might want to talk things over as a couple first—if only so you can coordinate your next moves. If they’re friends of long standing, I’d encourage you to have at least one conversation with them before ...