Right now. I actually agree with you that first of all, i need to go to a psychiatrist to listen to what he has to say, but i also understand that im scared suddenly my daughter finds out about this on her own, that im her mother and what will happen then what will it be worse. Maybe i should just wait until i will be 18 years old, and then it will be easier to tell and accept the whole situation. Go to a psychiatrist. You talk about yourself talk about how to behave if the girl accidentally finds out about it. Ideally, it seems to me that such things should be discussed with the daughter when...