Lessons from our mothers Jeanette Thomas with mum Carrol. Women can feel they are “turning into their mothers” as they get older – and recognise certain inherited traits, especially when they become parents themselves. Hibiscus Matters asked some local mothers what they learned about mothering from their own mums. Radio host Jeanette Thomas has two teenagers – Charlie, 19, and Mia, 17. The family moved to the Coast 18 years ago, to be closer to Jeanette’s mother, Carrol. “ Mum was my greatest teacher. She taught me patience, empathy and acceptance – and also how to vacuum withou...