And in the part of the video where they actually hand the flashlight to her upper body. and i just really can t speak about what i saw. but i knew it was her. you knew it was her. it was her beautiful blonde hair. and at what point did you feel like you wanted to share it with your wife? did you want to share it with your wife? no, i did not. but unfortunately she came out right after i had viewed the video and she knew what was going on. she knew something was really, really wrong. lucretia, you knew something was wrong. you saw the look in your husband s eyes and you said what was it. so you watched the video? he begged me not to. he said let me just let you listen to it. i said, no, i need to see it. because i couldn t believe someone would belittle my daughter like that. it just no. and i saw it and it was my daughter. and, toby, did you see it? ....