>> clearly, john boehner is not afraid to cry. water works like that, drop of the hat. there is a double standard. if nancy did that it would be held against her. on the other hand, the fact that boehner does it, probably makes it a safe place if nancy pelosi goes down that road. >> the issue is it's not about emotion, it's about emotions that men perceive as weakness and crying men perceive as weakness. if a man cries, we know a man is tough. if a woman cries, maybe she's not up to the job. >> okay. >> all right. [ laughter ] >> margaret gets the last word. >> i don't agree with that. that's ...