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I really can't put my finger on one quality that he had. he just had so many and his brother and the rest of their family are exactly like them. >> larry: mary is going to be with us. pat is going to be leaving us with the two guys, we will meet two other women who faced the same thing but how did you handle, patrick, get all the other circumstances, the loss of a child? >> i didn't. i haven't yet. i'm still working on it. it's different. the gut-wrenching is not like it used to be. >> larry: not supposed to be, right? >> not supposed to be. it is not good. >> larry: when you hear these two yo...

He was constantly depressed. he was hurt on the inside. but the others didn't seem to show any remorse or feel that they had done anything wrong. >> larry: you think the person who killed pat knew he killed him? >> i think -- >> larry: such a flurry that you wouldn't know? >> i think he knows it now but then, i don't think so. >> larry: when you hear this, pat, when you first met these young men, how did you react? >> when i first met them? >> larry: yeah. >> well, i've been picking at bits and petes for the last six years and i'm picking up more today. how someone felt when they were shooting...

They didn't lose 40 men in the unit. they lost -- >> ed that yarks i understand you were told your boy was killed by insurgents, right? >> yes. >> larry: when did they tell you the truth? >> two years later? >> larry: how did they do that? >> the -- i didn't do it myself, i couldn't have. i cried for two years day after day week after week, and so on and so on. >> you suspected something? >> of course, i knew from the start. >> larry: how would you know? >> because of his unit. just about everyone that's come to the house. >> larry: he was national guard? >> he was national guard. and was sent...

No black ber floirks ipod, no laptop. unthinkable? i think i would have a hard time. we have it all ahead, larry, at the top of the hour. >> i support that vacation. sanjay, 10 eastern, 7 pacific. we are back, mary tillman, she is called danny, she remains with us, the mother of pat tillman this incredible special documentary will appear friday. joining us now nadia mccaffrey, the mother of sergeant patrick mccaffrey who was killed in iraq on june 2, 2004. and karen meredis is here, motor of lieutenant ken ballard, who was killed in iraq on may 30, 2004. in both cases, they were their only chi...

Rangers an it was their first -- >> larry: scared? >> not just scared but lack of control, meaning there are people above them on the ground that were in charge of controlling their fires and i think there was a grave lack of control. >> larry: did you ever talk to them? >> i did not. >> larry: why not? >> never any opportunity to. >> larry: never saw him again? >> no. >> larry: why didn't you talk to him? >> i addressed him. once we returned back to salerno in afghanistan, we were to a meeting we all got together, we sat down and we discussed what happened and what went wrong and even after t...