She said: “I was very young actually, I was in Great Ormond Street and a staff nurse said to me, ‘You do realise you are taking up the bed of a really sick child, don’t you?’ “Now for me, that was the best thing she could possibly have said. Because it was a real wake-up call, it was like being hit on the head with the reality of it all. “I feel sad for my darling mother because of all the worry I put her through. “Actually, I would love to have that time back again because I’m afraid to say, from my point of view, it is something that you initiate yourself, you carry ...