Coach Kim: Forgiving when you've been deeply hurt
Question: I read your forgiveness article last week and had a question. I am a survivor of parental alienation due to a narcissistic ex-spouse. The pain, loss and despair is so acute that it's challenging to "forgive" this person, who intentionally manipulates the kids to hate me. How do you forgive someone who has hurt you and your children so badly and continues to? Do I really need to forgive them? Answer: No, you don't have to forgive people who have badly hurt you, and you definitely shouldn't trust them again or be in a relationship with them. Having said that, at some point you might d...
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