Women than men to have sex because of the potential for an unwanted pregnancy or public shame because of the double standard, or the possibility of contracting an std. but we found ways to protect from some of those things. we have contraceptives. we have condoms to protect from stds. and now we have this culture where women can be as comfortable doctor, let me ask you this. might we need to change what we think about a relationship, instead of this puritanical way that we place relationships on, might some of this stuff be righting? what s changing is we re moving away from relationships based on religious doctrine, on law, and we re trying to find some common ground where men and women can share emotional intimacy and trust and that is ....