Abuse, violence beatings to him and to his siblings. this is the substrate, the foundation upon which so many other things can happen. to say it s a mental illness is not realistic. the second thing is when they say he was a nice guy, there s countless times the allegations were continuing to force years. he supposedly was abusing the mother sexually physically and abusing the kids as well. the couple stayed together though. that s correct. so not necessarily a healthy environment there. his close friends, though say he was quoted as saying isis was doing wrong. what do you make of that? . ....