Teaching them the theorem. a child, i know this from personal experience. when children feel picked on and they feel diminished, they will never tell anyone. they won t come home and tell you if they feel like they ve been sidelined. that can damage them for a lifetime. there s a lot of damage being done to kids in terms of marginalizing them. we won t know for a generation. douglas, one parent saying how can i feel comfortable sending my white 9-year-old son to your library. there is one white face in ....