Excerpt: 'How to Not Die Alone' by Hinge Dating Expert Logan Ury
Simon & Schuster/Getty Images When you’re going on dates, you may be looking for that instant connection. Sudden, sexy, intoxicating. It’s physical, a pang of excitement in your gut, a feeling of nervousness when you look into their eyes. You can’t look away. If they touch you, it’s electric. Everyone else in the room fades into the background. You feel tuned in and turned on. You feel alive. You know what I’m talking about: “the spark.” I get it, the spark is wonderful. But you know what? F**k the spark. The concept is my nemesis: I’ve come to see our obsession with the spar...
Source: menshealth.com