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>> no up talking. >> most important thing. do you know what i am talking about when i say there's up talking. you know like young people they say it like this all of the time. they are not confident in what they are saying and they don't want to seem like they are being too bossy. if they state an opinion in the form of a question then they feel protected. a boss doesn't want to put their boss in front of a sly p enter client. the most important thing you can do for your children or high school daughter's friends or somebody that works for you if they talk like that they might not even realize...

>> i hate that. that's the most important thing. do you know what i'm talking about when i say there is uptalking? like young people and they say it like this all the time? they're not confident in what they're saying and they don't want to seem like they're being too bossy. so if they state an opinion in the form of a question, then they feel protected. and believe me, a boss does not want to put their employee that uptalks in front of a client. you will not get promoted. so the most important thing to do for your children or your high school daughter's friend or somebody that works for you i...

A bad idea. >> now is not the time to lower the standards. we have a smaller force. which demands a greater amount of responsibility. and so i think we need to do the opposite. we need to raise the bar because we have a smaller force. >> secretary carter also hoping to attract young and bright recruits by offering to pay off student loan debt. we all know to play sports you got to be tough. >> there's no crying. there's no crying in baseball. >> leave her alone jimmy. >> zip it, doris. >> i love that line. soon that rule might actually go out the window. a coach for a youth out reach program...

Alone, jimmy? >> zip it, doris. >> yeah, zip it. soon that may change. one coach is in big trouble for handing out a cry baby award to an 8-year-old child. we got a busy hour. starts right now live from new york you're watching "fox and friends." >> you are watching "fox and friends." thanks. good to have you here, clayton. >> thanks. great to be in this morning. >> great to have all of you joining us right now. the 7:00 a.m. hour. a lot going on this morning. >> sit down the next ten minutes will be the busiest all day. the fox news alert, today is deadline day. the obama administration scr...

Together some tips for us on how to keep it together. number one, you say zip it. >> zip it. in my private practice, i have -- i see couples all of the time. and the biggest issue is everybody knows how to talk. nobody knows how to listen. so communication, listen something the most partner thing. if you're with your spouse and ready to get in an argument zip it, leave it be swallow your pride. >> next up say you're sorry. do you have to mean it? the biggest, most difficult words for anybody to say, is i'm sorry, or you're right. and the ability to do that would save a tremendous amount of mar...