anna is a family counselor and says she can't leave because of her job. >> i'm a citizen, i'm no criminal. i went to school, i have a master's degree. i'm a professional and i still have to feel this way. i think it's unfair. >> reporter: a critic might say that you chose to marry someone undocumented. >> how do you tell your heart not to? we're not machines. we're not robots. we're humans. >> reporter: anna says she's sure other families are leaving because of fear. >> they were hoping for this exo dus of undocumented people. now it's happening. isn't that -- aren't you giving them what they want? >> they are going to regret it though. they will regret it. >> reporter: how? >> financially, they will not have people working the farms. they will not have people working, picking up strawberries. >> what will you tell people about why your husband is not living with you?