checkbook of yours. >> dad, wait a minute. i don't want to take any of your money. >> richard, remember before i was telling you about the sacrifices i made for my family? well, for a little while, i forgot why. but it's because i wanted my children to go as far as their gifts could take them. now you take this, and you fill in whatever amount you think you need. >> i love to think about tom boselli. i love to think about even his passing. i was so touched. half of the time i don't know if i was really married to him or not. it was so funny. i got so many phone calls. somebody sent me a plant. i think the public is not sure either whether i really was married to tom boselboselli. >> we have been married 28