elizabeth, this is your specialty. you handle a lot of this stuff for the "new york post." >> absolutely. that is right. jennifer will do anything for her kids. she wants ben to be happy and healthy to be a father to her kids. >> martha: i was reading something today, editorial from a guy who went through a.a. and he said not everybody can go to the fancy rehab place in los angeles like ben affleck can. but everybody can go to a meeting. he talked about how he went to eight meetings i think he said before he stayed at one. it's a disease. >> i know she is doing it for the kids. if my husband, if i was married and my husband cheated on me with the nanny i'd send him some place else. >> martha: there is that detail. >> but i love generaler the garner. she seems so nice. i see the capital one commercials and i want to open an account.